Re: What does past relationship (s) that never worked out got to do with marriage iss
This just seems like a very black and white way of looking at it because all of us are human and humans will try to conduct their life in the most halal way possible but the ones that do get into a relationship are ones that think it will end in marriage. Not everyone is successful going the arranged marriage route. Even with that you need to speak with the potential just to see if it is possible to see him/her as a long term life partner, in that process the human side of us will a small percentage of the time get emotionally attached or get misguided by people(boys’ or girls’ side) that seem legitimate but end up scamming. Allah knows that we are human beings that might go off the correct path but as long as we get back on the right path after swerving off because a gap of emotional weakness.
If we could go right to our perfect, great, compatible match, everything could stay as halal as possible but that is not how real life is. We are exposed to the opposite sex before we get married. I’m saying in that it was only personal conversations, spending time together, and chat. We will fall for one along the way. Dealing with it not ending in marriage is hard enough but then we have to deal with holier than thou people that judge us and then we are doomed.