What does past relationship (s) that never worked out got to do with marriage issue

Re: What does past relationship (s) that never worked out got to do with marriage iss

Why would it involve lies, going out with someone does not mean being in marriage. And what exactly does a “relationship” mean? It has no rules or set boundaries like marriage.

And in a typical desi society wouldn’t going out even with 1 or two men involve lies and deception?

And extrapolating it further, anyone who does not disclose there past to spouse would also be lying and deceiving.