when one is going through a phase of extreme depression
and has lost all faith in him / herself
How do we bring that person back to normal life and help him / her find the lost confidence and make the person realize that there is nothing wrong with him / her.
That person is someone near and dear to me.
(There is a reason and a background for this behaviour - and it is not necessary to discuss here on this public forum)
I just want to hear some constructive comments from you guyz, how to initiate the process to bring him / her back to normal life.
Since you prefer not to give specifics on the reasoning behind this despressional behavior, I guess you’ll just be getting vague answers.
My advice would be to turn to what Islam has to say about the issue. Think how the Prophet (pbuh) would handle the situation. Pray to Allah(swt) to for help/guidance, and InshaAllah you’ll friend will feel better soon.
Did everyone read over the part where JB said “CONSTRUCTIVE responses”? Is this possible in the Cafe? Can we make this happen? C’mon guys, we can do it!
bhai meray hum jin say pyar kartay hai or jin kay close hotay hai un ko Jan kar anjan ban jana hum insano ke fitrat mai shamil hota hai , so bus us ko jan lo sab kuch saaf saaf nazar anay lagay ga app ko
raha sawal un sahab yah saheeba ko wapis lanay ka tu zindage mai wapis lana or us ke bayrang zindage mai rang bharna serf or serf us waqat ho sakta hai jab woh insan app kay lafzo ko mahsos kar sakay or app kay lafzo ko us waqat he koie mahsos kar paie ga jab app appnay sachay or pyar bharay jazbaato kay sath us ko sumjhie kay zindage aik jhaga nahi rook jati balkay agay bharti hai , hum insan aksar aik har bardashat nahi kar patay or kadam agay ke jhaga peechay janay lagtay hai us waqat aik hath or aik sath ka sahara chaheyah hota hai insan ko so agar app us kay sachay well wisher hai tu hath agay karo us kay kadam jo peechay jaa rahay hai wapas laoo or us ko bata do kay zindage kitne khoobsorat hai or us mai basay insan bhi
Pray to Allah for He alone can can remove any depression or hurt that you may feel.
Follow the example of Prophet Muhammad-peace be on him-who faced the severest calamities and difficulties without being weakened, yielding or losing heart.
Inshallah may your friend get out of this depression soon.
yeah thats something i am considering (seriously)
Not exercise exactly - but a walk in the park and around the block every evening - keeping company... u know. Talk about cheerfull things and stuff...
James bhai, spend as much time as you can with this person, do things that they enjoy, no drugs or depressing movies etc. call me i know T.O well, will find you a million things to do.
