Re: What does Islam say?
**Living separate from inlaws is now ‘manipulating’ lol..
Some men seriously need to grow up and cut themselves from their mummy’s apron strings, 99% of other Muslim men can manage to get their own home when they marry but for some**** desi men this basic thing is apparently too ‘greedy’ or ‘selfish.’ Yeah, the whole world is wrong and obviously they’re right **
And Jaanwar I posted all that stuff to prove a point, unlike some others on here I don’t try and** pass off my own opinion as Islamic fact.. Unfortunately there are still toooo many girls out there who really believe their duty is to live and serve the inlaws, dunno why it would bother u so much that it’s simply being pointed out that it’s not.
It’s not the men who move out of their parents’ homes who are the pussies, doesn’t it take a ‘real’ man to provide a house and pay the bills rather than stay at home with mother still babying him and doing his laundry, cleaning etc. his whole life?
If the subject ‘living with inlaws’ bothers u so much why not just stay out of the thread?
Well I guess living with in-laws or not should be a matter of personal choice and preference with no force or coercion with the husband and in-laws accepting whatever the decision of DIL is…