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itna sad life mein Alhamdulillaah kbhi hua hi ni k kch b krne ka dil na kr raa ho siwaey aik dafa k !!
But usually I try to relax myself and make myself busy in other things n divert my thoughts, If it doesnt work, then lambi taan k so jao jaan chuti 
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I watch some standup comedy
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I cry my eyes out. Then I pray. Then I eat like a crazy person. Then I sleep.
It’s a very well thought out cycle.
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I isolate myself in my room, dim the lights, listen to Nusrat"s qawwalis, eat Kraft dinner, and ponder over the why’s and what now’s. Sometimes I cry myself to sleep. Other times I distract myself with comedy shows, but it doesn’t work very well. I feel much better the next day or week later once I’ve gained some clarity over the situation, like what is and isn’t in my control. Praying helps too.
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aaaaaawwwwwwww…but, honestly, why girls like to cry? how does it soothe their souls? men don’t understand that i guess. 
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Absolutely,
one has to recognize when one is getting in to udaasi borderline and may stay for a few seconds there but should jump back out.
if one stays longer, the cycle may go on and it may become difficult to get out.
But, then why even get to the point of udaasi if at all possible?
My motto:
Make yourself busy doing something.
Never stay too long at one place or be idol.
Plan the day well before.
Do something useful for yourself or others.
You will have very little time to be udaas.
(Punkaj Udaas Se maazrat Ke Saath)
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no one likes being a crybaby. but sometimes you cant help it.
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and because you men are emotionally unavailable is precisely why* some* girls cry themselves to sleep 
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i don’t mind a crybaby but i was just wondering how the chemistry of soothing effect works! 
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Madz, this song might help you cry to sleep. 
Also, “Dard jab hadd se guzartaa hai, to pee laitai hain”. :halo:
But seriously, life is so busy that there is no time to acknowledge sadness. 
However, things could be different in faraaghat. 
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Who says men are not emotionally available?
Its just that some people have no time to be sad.
Oh, just FYI,
…there are lots of tharki men who would love to support a woman who is crying…
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hehe men are the least of my problems at the moment. laptop randomly crashing however makes me uber frustrated.
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Only if they are hot and stuff..yes
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^You mean at least they should do decent make up before crying?
Not like sar jhaaR Munh PhaaR…
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I stay in my room for the first hour or so only to continue the story I’m writing (and drill my emotions upon the poor protagonist). Probably eat three cups of granola while I’m doing this.
Then I drive down to the nearest running track and jog like a maniac (occasionally cry during the jog, other times I’m just plain numb and dry).
Then me treats myself with a 4.4 oz Lindt white chocolate afterwards. 
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very intense, indeed!..getting sad is a serious business…eh? how often does that happen? a couple of times a day? keep up the good work! 
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Not quite.. Probably a few times a year.
I just realized I forgot to mention the mirror. That should have been the first thing. Upon entering my room I stare at myself in the mirror and cry. It’s a self pity kind of thing, yeah.
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oh! i thought getting sad is an excuse to treat yourself and it should have happened more frequently!
do you also say: “mirror, mirror on the wall…”??? i know the mirror’s answer anyway!
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I treat myself regardless of my emotional disposition.
Yes, I say: “Mirror, mirror on the wall.. speak and I’ll toss you out of the window, smashing you into a million pieces faster than you could say my name”.
Afterall, the last thing I need on a depressing day is a chatty mirror.
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hmmm…so, you are NOT ‘chatty’ when you get angry?