What do you dislike about Pakistani Mentality

[hareem01]

Re: What do you dislike about Pakistani Mentality

@Sahdia77

True. But when no society looks to solve its problems, then they become worse and the society does not progress.

I love our Desi culture, we have so many amazing aspects of our culture. I’ve seen many different cultures, because I live in the Netherlands. I’ve seen Dutch culture of course, but I also saw the culture of family friends and my own personal friends who have a Turkish background, or a Moroccan culture, Algerian, British, German and French cultures for example, I compared them to our Desi culture and personally I like the Desi culture best. In my personal life, I mix the nice aspects of Dutch and Pakistani culture. I can’t live without Dutch culture nor our Desi culture.

Yet, there are the nasty aspects which ruin many nice things from our Desi culture. I’d like to see those things change. Change only happens if we look for the root of the problem and solve it.

I don’t believe in revolution or change nor do I believe in utopian societies and perfect cultures. Sure I can control and change my own actions or may be to a degree can try to influence the actions of people around me…but Even then I can never achieve the perfection. I can never call myself a perfect human being.

Another thing about the change, cultures and societies will always evolve regardless of its good and bad elements and at one point they may achieve the title of the epitome of perfection in all its goodness and glory but the bad elements will always be there…you can never separate the both from each other.