what do u do if..

Lifestyle Relationships
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ur brother in law makes u sort of uncomfortable?

any ladies experience this

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Jesus.

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:smack:

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where will this stop?

what if your husband make you feel uncomfortable :smack2:

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You can't get rid of him, can you? Whether he's your BIL by being married to your sister...OR...your BIL through being being the brother of the guy you're going to marry.......he's not going anywhere.

What ABOUT HIM is making you feel comfortable? It's almost hard to advise if we don't know. Some types of awkwardness can be reduced by making the effort to talk to the other person and getting to know them. And other types of awkwardness is the kind...where it's better to maintain a civil distance from the person.

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May God forbid. That should be really one awkward situation. Avoid him. As much as you can.

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Sleep with him and see if it fixes the problem.

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you really need woman's touch. :D

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soni you are smart girl(if i remember correctly)

Avoid him if that fixes the issue.
If not see if its obvious to his mom, if so talk to her.

If not that then talk to your hubby and tell about your discomfort.

What is there to think and ask. :)

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:omg:

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No, never. Is he older than you?

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OP's question is vague.

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hahaaaaa

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no, hes couple years younger..n the marriage hasnt happened yet

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uncomfortable? in what way?

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monk: thanks for giving serious n sincere reply unlike alot of other distasteful n fazool ones given here

syraa: maybe its just me but..he always comes into the room that im in through some bahana..n hes always doing somemthing or saying something tyring to come in between my and his sisters conversations unwantingly..even his sister once told him to get lost..and stares at me a lot..sometimes i get the feeling that maybe he doubts something of me or he doesnt like me..soemthing like that..i cant exactly put my finger on it..

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Mmmm, could even be the exact opposite, he might even like you. No, not trying to be "distasteful" here.

You're going to be a new addition to that family...maybe he's just curious about you and wants to get to know you...after all you'll be marrying his brother.

I know some guys who interfere in conversations b/w women...they feel the need to be a part of everything...just personality.

How old is he? If he's staring at you....maybe try calling him out on it (You've been looking at me for quite some time....is there a problem/is everything okay/do you need to say something...I'm engaged to your brother and I don't want there to be any awkwardness b/w us, etc etc).

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redvelvet: if that was the case then he wouldnt have gotten angry that his mom told him to say salam to me once..where his response was 'pehle app log to karlo salam' in an annoyed manner n bitter tone

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Soni, we would not have known that because you never mentioned this detail. People can only make assumptions based on the information you provide.

Maybe he was in a bad mood that day. Maybe he felt agitated that his mom scolded him in front of you.

If he's trying to "involve" himself in your conversations with others, maybe that's his way of trying to interact with his future SIL. One can see that as him trying to make an "effort" at being friendly and more approachable rather than bitter.

On one hand you say that he's annoyed and bitter about you......and on the other hand you say that he tries to come into a room if you're in there. That's like a contradiction. In most cases, people try to avoid those that they're annoyed with.

Is he close to his brother (the one you're engaged to)? Maybe he's afraid that relationship will change. Maybe he's just trying to get used to you being a part of their family (that can be tough for some people).

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You are even married and you call him brother in law?

You still have the option of getting comfortable with him, don't you? ;)