what do u do if..

Lifestyle Relationships
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Re: what do u do if..

Tell you husband, why are you living with them to begin with?

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You gotta be quite pathetic to be laffing at such a raunchy joke.

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He is younger then you. Look upon him as your younger brother and the perspective shall change.

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Yeah I think he's younger than you and hence annoying.

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L2spell first before insulting others. The inability to spell a 2nd grade word does not add credit to your argument.

Secondly the joke while completely raunchy does not detract from the OPs threads whose implied sexual connotations are much much worse in my eyes.

Firstly she does not make it clear that what level of discomfort it is. Leading everybody down the sexual track. Frankly pretty low to begin with. She does not give any details either leading to more speculation.

Lastly no one is of the impression it is all in her head and that the Brother in law has done nothing wrong. Nor has anybody taken into account that she is uncomfortable for reasons of her own.

The post in its subtext is sexual in nature. I simply highlight it and its a joke in bad taste. By the underlining meaning that she is uncomfortable due to sexual tension is A okay. :rolleyes:

Well done there Einstein.

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Demise followed by autopsy of a misfortunate joke:nahi:

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There are bad BIL's and lovely ones..

My BIL are younger than me so I have a very close sisterly relationship with

I know of a friend who is from Gujranwala or somewhere and she had to stay with her father in law and Brother in laws whilst her hubby was away for work
her MIL had died and her nands were all married off ..

Younger BIL was 22 at the time had gone out (possibly doing bad stuff like drugs) and had come home late at night and started knocking on his SIL bedroom door .. knowing full well the connotations it holds and she thankfully did not open it because as she said very rightfully, if I had opened that door, no matter how good my intentions I would have been blamed

After that incident she left the home and went back to her dads with a lot of uproar as no one truly understood the reason for her to leave and stay their until her husband came back

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soni... situation can get weird if u'll tell your husband....
from your behaviour and posture show him that u are upset with his behaviour and you are not interested...
be a lil bit serious and rude towards him...

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Some of the OP's descriptions may lead one to wonder if the BIL has an interest, but then that's contradicted with her saying that he's "bitter" toward her. She's not being clear. Telling him that "you're not interested" when he may not have any romantic interest in her at all....can make for a very embarrassing and awkward situation.

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honey i cannot tell my fiance this..omg..never

n ur advice is really good but i already show disinterested attitude towards him..we dont even speak to eachother..and i just act like hes not even there but he keeps jumping in and around..one time he acted so weird that i didnt go back to their house for weeks

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then why dont you speak to him...
ask him whats the problem?
may be there's some misunderstanding....