What do Guys look for in a Girl..

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I forgot: not religious. No hijabaans plz.

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as long as shes nice looking and hijaban /religious /not white wannabe she will do fine. …:hinna:… … …

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Height/Built ... equal to or less than me.

Definately a professional. Inflation has killed the housewife, it's just economically too tough to get by on a single salary especially early in one's career. Plus in order to be able to afford to send the kids to private schools, you really need 2 salaries these days.

Age difference - equal to or younger than me.... basically any age as long as she has completed at least her bachelor's degree.

Male friends - wouldn't mind at all if she has them or keeps in touch with them. After all, I do have female friends and I don't plan on cutting ties with them; why should I expect any different from my wife and her male friends? But I would tell her about all my female friends, keeping none secret from her, and never hang out alone with just a female friend. I would hope my wife acts the same way regarding her male friends.

She shouldn't change the way she dresses just for me. To the contrary, I should expect her to continue dressing the way she did before and raise any daughters we may have to dress similarly to her. This applies regardless of whether she's liberal in dressing or very conservative...

My parents raised me and my brother to take part in all the household chores and my dad used to do them too.... I think it's normal for the husband and wife to both share the chores.

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I don’t care about age difference, although if given a choice or forced to make a choice on this matter than i would like her to be of same age as me (or close by +/- 2) Any height, built, profession will do. She doesn’t have to be a housewife, I like my own cooking hehe but i do want her to be responsible, caring, and have a good personality.

There is always some sort of limit on everything, she can keep in touch with whomevr she wants after all its her life.

I won’t be comfortable with that, i would like her not to wear sleeveless. And yes i will be upfront with her about this before marriage so no surprises :slight_smile:

Well, i do want her to take part in these activities, but i won’t be leaving her alone to do all this by herself. As i said, i like my own cooking, i have been living alone for a while so doing household chores, cleaning, grocery isn’t a problemo for me.. i think it is a nice way to get to know your spouse by doing these things together it doesn’t have to be a lonely task :wink:

FYI: i am not going with her on shoe shopping …

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Height equal to you Mad?

How short are you?

I'm 183cm/6ft exactly. I'd want a lady shorter then me, 5'8 at the most.

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im the same....i've have always found alot of guys on GS very annoying and still find them and thier responses annoying )....so nothings changed...

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oh boy, where are all these awesome liberal guys coming from....keep it coming guys....ill be damned, if youre still single!! :D

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:barbie: …I’m 5’8… :bb: i like tall men :smiley: who’s the tallest in gupland???

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my friend…i wish you good luck. you will need it. :no:

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Dunno, although 6ft is a nice height.

Are you moving to the UK to study?

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dang! why can’t girls just decide on shoes quickly!!! i will need some training in shoe shopping and its stress - any volunteers?

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its not just shoes …whole list of items…chawani ki cheez kharidni ho pura din ghuzaar deti pasand karne main.:vivo: ..

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decent ones?

I dont know many guys on here…but heres some of the ones that I think are decent and give mature replies:

faizy, shikra, gizzy, anwaar, umar talib, shak kills, maddy, urbanpk…

those are the names I can think of from the top of my head…you would generally get good sensible replies from these ones :slight_smile:

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Well I would definitely like her to be smaller in height so we do not look weird when standing next to each other. Also I would like her to be educated so at any time she could get a decent job. It really is not a problem of money since my salary is more than enough but it will be able to give her the choice rather she wants to be a housewife or a working wife. As for age difference no more than 4-5 years younger than me.

I would not care if she had male friends because I have quite a lot of female friends from all the way back in high school and college that I have known for most of my life. There is no reason for me to be a hypocrite in this situation so I would not mind a single bit but I would be catious if there is some flirting going on as offcourse that would also make her angry if a female was flirting with me. I am not a hypocrite on this issue…

I would never try to change her wardrobe or who she is as a person. I think a person should change on their own will instead of someone forcing them to change.

I know many of you will be suprised but I would love to and am looking foward to be doing these things with my wife once I come home from work or on my days off from work. A great way to bond and spend time in my opinion. Just one request to her would be to play some pool with me at times since I have ordered a table.:smiley:

When your wife can play pool it is very sexy!

Who needs a trophy wife then?:confused:

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Actually, I have a similar thing… the request I have is that she would play Xbox 360 with me :smiley:

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maddy and faizy :blush:

i vaannnnnnnnt urz phraaaaandshup. :blush:

i know both of these guys personally, and they are amazing. what you see is what you get.

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Yeah, pool is very romantic at times, I always took my date to play pool on the first date. VERY VERY ROMANTIC! Even more so if she does not know how to play!:blush:

Ohh by the way I found her and the wedding is set for March 10th…

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^^

I've never dated, let alone try to play Xbox 360 with a date :p

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Yes, well I am afraid I have dated, which my fiance knows already because I do not hide things. Well I think that is the only "bad activity" I have taken part in but that was natural as I grew up in an enviroment where there was peer pressure to do so...

Not an escuse but an explanation for my behavior...

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thats pretty scary then :bummer: