Well since we have soo many threads full of what girls look for in a guy..
I thought why not find out what traits/characteristics do Men want when they are looking for a wife.. You know height, built, profession or do you want a housewife?! Age difference, etc. etc. etc…
Basically just like how the female guppies have expressed exactly what they are looking for in men, now its your turn!!
And also
Some questions: Would you care if your future wife has male friends and how would you feel about her keeping in touch with them after marriage..
or
Lets say your future wife wears sleeveless clothes or even capris before she gets married, would you feel comfortable with that or make her change her wardrobe..
and
Do you expect your wife to do all the household chores, cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping just like the traditional way?!
OKayyy Male guppies, its your time now & Be honest!
I thought why not find out what traits/characteristics do Men want when they are looking for a wife.. You know height, built, profession or do you want a housewife?! Age difference, etc. etc. etc.... :)
Beauty with brains, some1 who can stand with me confidently in my social circle & and could have a conversation intellectually; but definitely not a TROPHY wife :-)
Some questions: Would you care if your future wife has male friends and how would you feel about her keeping in touch with them after marriage..
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I dun mind it at all. when I can have female friends then why can't she!**
or
Lets say your future wife wears sleeveless clothes or even capris before she gets married, would you feel comfortable with that or make her change her wardrobe..
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As long as its not too revealing, what she wore BEFORE getting married to me is none of my business. How she ACTS after getting married to me will be my main concern.**
and
Do you expect your wife to do all the household chores, cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping just like the traditional way?!
To a reasonable extent yes, but I dun mind giving a hand myslef.
OKayyy Male guppies, its your time now & Be honest! :D
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height? no preference ..
built? no preference, as long as she’s health-conscious and into the fitness scene..definitely a professional .. i cant really feel comfy if i’m doing outside work, and she’s “stuck” in house/regarding house..
definitely she can keep male friends and have activity partners that are males or mixed gatherings, i grew up among mixed cousins, went to co-ed schools, pretty much every girlfriend i’ve been with had male friends, didnt bothered me then, isnt gonna bother me after marriage..
again, two way street.. i’m not gonna be a neck-breather and enforce laws that she must follow.. if she doesnt feel it THAT way, and feels actually happy to be able to pull the image off, by all means :k: .. it takes forever to shape up enough to look good ..
cleaning i can live with, grocery shopping i will curse and can live with, cooking i can do upto a point to feed (and feel good) myself, but i’m not sure if my cooked food will be good ENOUGH for my wifey though .. so yeah, will be willing to divide work load .. TWO things however i have personal hatred with… hanging curtains, and switching laundry from washer to dryer :\ i will volunteer for cleaning driveway and her car and do groceries before doing these two things ..
*i cant really feel comfy if i’m doing outside work, and she’s “stuck” in house/regarding house.. *
definitely she can keep male friends and have activity partners that are males or mixed gatherings, i grew up among mixed cousins, went to co-ed schools, pretty much every girlfriend i’ve been with had male friends, didnt bothered me then, isnt gonna bother me after marriage..
again, two way street.. i’m not gonna be a neck-breather and enforce laws that she must follow.. if she doesnt feel it THAT way, and feels actually happy to be able to pull the image off, by all means :k: .. it takes forever to shape up enough to look good ..
Will be willing to divide work load .. TWO things however i have personal hatred with… hanging curtains, and switching laundry from washer to dryer :\ i will volunteer for cleaning driveway and her car and do groceries before doing these two things ..
WOW!!! I am so impressed! rare qualities not usualy found in men!
Intelligence, sense of humour, dashing smile and a nice butt. Also she should be slender/average/athletic/curvy (that covers most women)...but not large/extra pounds or big.
Also should not be too dark. I am of a relatively fair complexion, (light brown), and she should not be darker then me.