Ok People- I created this thread, due to the problem of much confusion in present day relationships, in order to evaluate what traits/non-traits are important for females in a partner.
Tell us what you like dislike.
It would be nice and helpful ladies, if in order of priority you would list, what you look for in a man. Such a list would certainly help any man in focussing and planning on key areas.
For the females kindly considering giving thier opinion, Please could you sort through the 10 following main personality features and in order of importance: (I omitted religion as atleast a moderate level in all is already expected).
Remember to be realistic and honest.
The list format is employed for clarity, however feel free to make your normal comments.
Girls want attention. Guys want validation. Quite frankly, they deserve each other.
I'll play along.
In order of preference, that is if I were inclined to go by a list of attributes rather than judging/attempting to understand each person individually, then it would be thus;
Maturity.
Loyalty,
respecting
caring
confidence/social skills
loving
education
looks
income.
I left out character because I'm not entirely sure how you are defining it. Ha, yes I do realize it looks like a politically correct answer, but that was not my intention; I believe everyone possesses all these attributes, just to varying degrees and they change over time.
1. Caring / Loving, **If he cares for me and loves me, he'll naturally respect me and be loyal to me too.
**2. Education, Income, Character **are equally important to me.
**3. Maturity and Confidence
*4. Looks. *
Thanks for the recent contributions.
Sensible answer C.B.
And yes, rather politically answered El Topo.
I agree on the ambuguity of 'Character'. In this context we take a good character means one who is honest, law-abiding, no substance abuser, no extreme habits etc.
Dude, all the girls here will post someting like "loyality", "turst", "honesty" things .. thaty they want .. but when things become reality .. these are the last things that hey will think off .. .. their list will go as .. .. "$$$" .. and "$$$" and then .. "$$$" ..
Being straightforward, no man or human is perfect.
Respectivly, if the guy is earning more $$$, he could also be more prone to promiscuity, as for some men the acquiring of more success also comes with a feeling of deserving more.
I want 'peace of mind' in marriage & thats a good blend of all the things listed. I dont want to enter in a marriage to encounter a never ending list of issues, tensions, 'pari-shaani' regarding the guy's attitude, character, income troubles etc
I also want a guy from a 'good family'.......not in terms of money, but in terms of stability, values & respect, open mindedness, simply meaning 'not chichoray or conservative people' where i'll feel suffocated....& yes this is very much related to the guy himself as there is always a hint of family background in a person no matter how much you polish yourself
as for the list;
-as someone said, if he loves me/cares for me he'll be* loyal* & respectable to me
