What do girls look for in a Guy?

[fallenpieta]

Re: What do girls look for in a Guy?

Well SHE wanted to see my pay stub and bank balance when my mom went to see about a girl for my risha.

[hitchki]

Re: What do girls look for in a Guy?

farishta - I like to think that Im worth it. :)

[Femme_Fatale]

Re: What do girls look for in a Guy?

@hitchki

Er…OK. How about an honest answer in jest.

I WANT: Someone over 6 foot 3 preferably 6 3-4, well built with a very stylish sense of dress. He should be able to take care of himsef..but not too much. I dont want competition in the bathroom mirror. He should work out. I want to feel like im hugging a man not a cushion. He would ideally have a strong jaw and a twinkle in his eye. Stubble makes everything better.
I want someone sucessful in their field. Preferably banking or Law. Im attracted to sucess, power and ambition. Also, the gift of the gab is always a plus. He should be about 4-5 years older than me.
I want him to be a gentleman whilst respecting my right to be an independent lady, not confuse gender roles with chauvanism. He should appreciate me entirely and love his family. I want him to have an older and younger brother and sisters. Im hazy about this part..I want sisters because he should know how women think - brothers so that he isnt the spoilt one in the family ie: he should spoil me.
He should have quirks that make him endearing and have sparkling wit. I dont care if he has a good sense of humour as long as he leaves me laughing hysterically. He should know how to banter.
He should want to devote his life to me and love me absolutely and competly - denouncing the world in my honour.
He should have no oedipic complex. that is not hot. It is also disturbing. He should challange me mentally - stimulate me. Make me want to achieve better and greater things. He should be true to his morals whilst be creative with them also. There should be a great deal of respect for his parents and all the women in his life.
He should be well read.
We should have crazy chemistry.
I dont want a mullah, but i want someone who has considered and picked thir faith and is trying to live their life the best way they can. I want him to be an inherantly good person with “A good heart”.
Should be self confident and easy going. Be able to diffuse my temper. I should be able to trust him. I want him to love my family like I do.

I cant think of anything else right now.

I’ll have one to go please just not more than 6’3" and articulate too.

[_Iraj]

Re: What do girls look for in a Guy?

@Code_Red

They want 72 virgins packed in one body.

i want probably some1 like me

[_Iraj]

Re: What do girls look for in a Guy?

double post

[picoico]

Re: What do girls look for in a Guy?

@shweetdreamz

oh last but not least...if u are with her...dont stare at other women. its disrespectful.

Eeeks...desi guys are known for that? I noticed the opposite...once a guy gets married, he's less awkward around females...and if anything his wife is the one asking him (rather, BATING him) by soliciting his thoughts on girls who pass by...

[The_Voice]

Re: What do girls look for in a Guy?

nakhray dekho zara

[UrbanPK]

Re: What do girls look for in a Guy?

@hitchki

farishta - I like to think that Im worth it. :)

You wont find the man you are looking for then.

What is up with the anti brown man rhetoric?

It seems we have all been generalized when really the majority of us are kind loving human beings. I am getting married in a matter of weeks now and I am lucky I did not run into some of the people on this forum and their "expectations". It seems we have become so modernized that the really important things do not matter anymore. May god save us all and good luck to the men that will have to bear the brunt of the "modern" desi woman!:D

Eventually, I am sure if this keeps up the brown man will look at the white chick as more suitable. We will see then who gets left behind because they had their expectations too high.

[Monk]

Re: What do girls look for in a Guy?

@mercenary2k

can you gals give me some tips as what does a modern Pakistani girl is looking for in a guy?

its called MONEY

[Munni]

Re: What do girls look for in a Guy?

A guy who will accept me for what I am, and what I desire to be, whether I achieve it or not.

[Monk]

Re: What do girls look for in a Guy?

@Munni

A guy who will accept me for what I am, and what I desire to be, whether I achieve it or not.

You mean some one like me??:desimunda:

[PyariCgudia]

Re: What do girls look for in a Guy?

I thought mercenary was a girl.

[danial]

Re: What do girls look for in a Guy?

^ So did UTD.

[Sara516]

Re: What do girls look for in a Guy?

@fallenpieta

Well SHE wanted to see my pay stub and bank balance when my mom went to see about a girl for my risha.

NO WAY!

[shweetdreamz]

Re: What do girls look for in a Guy?

@picoico

Eeeks…desi guys are known for that? I noticed the opposite…once a guy gets married, he’s less awkward around females…and if anything his wife is the one asking him (rather, BATING him) by soliciting his thoughts on girls who pass by…

not the ones ive seen! ive been with “newly married” couples where the husband continued to stare openly at other women while sitting right next to his wife. its a turn-off.
and just in case one of those guys is reading this i want to let them know that the women you stare at while you are with your wife are also thinking u’re quite pathetic :k:

[AshKhan]

Re: What do girls look for in a Guy?

@danial shah

M2K all girls are different, they all want diff. things but if you find a nice girl who is caring and decent, she'll compromise, and you will have to as well.

Now i'll let the girls answer :p

sorry.

quite true to some extend ...but girl looks for maturity and his ability to provide a personal and financial security as a family togather...

TC....

Ash.....

[hitchki]

Re: What do girls look for in a Guy?

@UrbanPK

You wont find the man you are looking for then.

What is up with the anti brown man rhetoric?

It seems we have all been generalized when really the majority of us are kind loving human beings. I am getting married in a matter of weeks now and I am lucky I did not run into some of the people on this forum and their “expectations”. It seems we have become so modernized that the really important things do not matter anymore. May god save us all and good luck to the men that will have to bear the brunt of the “modern” desi woman!

Eventually, I am sure if this keeps up the brown man will look at the white chick as more suitable. We will see then who gets left behind because they had their expectations too high.

I reserve the right to hold out hope.
PS I love brown men

[wunderkind]

Re: What do girls look for in a Guy?

^ and what will you give in return? just your shallow affections for a cardboard cut-out of Mr Perfect? it's human to have weaknesses and downsides to one's character.

You're probably one of those narcissists who seek validation of their own impoverished selves by seeking the love of someone who you see as 100% perfect.

[hitchki]

Re: What do girls look for in a Guy?

@wunderkind

^ and what will you give in return? just your shallow affections for a cardboard cut-out of Mr Perfect? it's human to have weaknesses and downsides to one's character.

You're probably one of those narcissists who seek validation of their own impoverished selves by seeking the love of someone who you see as 100% perfect.

hahahaha, er ok, Probably, or perhaps I am (in semi jest) answering a question asked of me. Before you start banding around your infantile accusations using your "im complexed" bat.. based on the net nothing that you know about me I would like you to consider how many degrees of none-of-your-business both I and my tastes are.

Don't blame me or my Mr. Perfect cause you'll never measure up chump. "hate the game".

[UrbanPK]

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@hitchki

hahahaha, er ok, Probably, or perhaps I am (in semi jest) answering a question asked of me. Before you start banding around your infantile accusations using your “im complexed” bat.. based on the net nothing that you know about me I would like you to consider how many degrees of none-of-your-business both I and my tastes are.

Don’t blame me or my Mr. Perfect cause you’ll never measure up chump. “hate the game”.

At the end of the day you will be “hating the game”.:halo: