I am 24 and in about 4 years or so I will probably get married.
To make my self more presentable and appealing, can you gals give me some tips as what does a modern Pakistani girl is looking for in a guy?
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M2K all girls are different, they all want diff. things but if you find a nice girl who is caring and decent, she'll compromise, and you will have to as well.
Now i'll let the girls answer :p
sorry.
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Educations is the key..
Personality is another improtant..
But in the end you have to be yourself..as you can,t change yourself..actually.
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make sure u find the girl who is as passionate about israel as you…and who doesn’t mind USA attacking n bombing the **** out of iran…:halo: 
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DAMN you're 24? I thought you were in college!
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any body whos not that religious ..will do fine...probably not a big issue in ur case .:D ..
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Well I took a year off to travel around the world
and I was doing 2 Degrees so it took 5 years to get through college and plus with that ridicilous OAC in Ontario Highschools I had to spend 5 years in HighSchool
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personally I dont care if she supports Israel or not as long as she is opinionated and not base her opinion on some mullah on a loud speaker or a mullah with his TV show on PTV
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and I was doing 2 Degrees so it took 5 years to get through college and plus with that ridicilous OAC in Ontario Highschools I had to spend 5 years in HighSchool
Ok edit, I thought you were 18-20 . Better :p
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Why are you so concerned about it right now ?? I'm sure you have better things to worry about :P
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if you dont mind me asking, how old r u?
I always thought you were like 10-12 cause your posts are so innocent:)
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Most gurls do look for a guy whose 6'2 lol although its rare to find one with the whole package - you know having all the qualities which include religion, education, personality, family oh and looks.. I'm sure u already know of all this !
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yea. i know all i look for is height. Anyone who isnt about 2 foot 1 and I’m sold 
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^^lol
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a guy who is educated....a guy who knows where his religion lies....a guy who knows how to treat his wife with respect.....a guy who will always be by ur side, no matter how hard the circumstances are
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i know well abut pakistani galz,,although all important for galz education, personality look ect but to hv relly modern girl style is also important..guy shoud nt b dull, boring,serious,,,he shuld b loving humorus,friendly,,n decent at the same time...especially lahori galz dont like typical males(im talking only abut the new n mod generation)..gud luck..
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They want 72 virgins packed in one body.
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a good sense of humour , someone who maintains a little level of mystery (keeps things interesting), and someone who knows how much little things matter and can treat their girl like a princess. that is all.
many desi guys love complaining about women and their issues. a complete turn off.
as far as looks are concerned...honestly speaking...keep basic hygiene in check (body odour, teeth, hair, bad breath) and be self-confident.
oh last but not least...if u are with her...dont stare at other women. its disrespectful.
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Women/girls don't really know what they want in their men. They have a vague cloudy picture of a perfect man, but that perfect man has so many conflicting traits that he cannot exist.
Lets disect what shweetdreamz suggested:
1- a good sense of humour: That has become the in-fad thing to say, which actually is not trully understood. Ask a girl what she means by a good sense of humour and you will find that there are a lot of sensitivities involved. Humour which is not understood is not taken well. Humour directed at her is not taken well.
2- a level of mystery: That is completely opposite of my observation. Women want their men to be completely open and without any mystery. Women, themselves, want to leave an aura a mystery around them. Women don't feel comfortable around men who can read women easily.
3- how much little things matter: Women don't realise the implication of this. Men mostly learn from experience how much little things matter and what are those little things. Then they learn to compromise on those things. Those men for whom little things matter are usually self-centered and will not usually see why the same little things matter in other person's life.
4- Treat their girl like a princess: Basically, this means don't look at my faults as my shortcomings but accept my faults as something beautiful and unworldly. Whenever she commits a mistake, forget it immediately but don't expect the same in return.
5- Desi guys love complaining: This is a charade to confuse desi guys and to show them that non-desi are the one who trully appreciate them. Non-desi guys love complaining more, infact, I find it revolting how they expose their wives and gf in the company of other people.
From what I see, the question varies from person to person. The thought process is slowly taking over the importance of physical outlook. Unconsiously, I think, we look for a person with the qualities, which we are missing in our own self.
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hrm.... not sure if i agree with you completely...
a good sense of humor is relative- what i find funny, you might not and vice versa. but when you say they wont like it if a guy makes fun of them, well, duh. unless you know me really well, and know my sense of humor and what i can and can not take, dont make fun of me. you'll come across as a jackass and we wont be getting hitched anytime soon. and i dont think its the "in" thing to say... ever spent an evening with someone who has no sense of humor? its brutal.
its true in my experience too- the women i know do want their guys to be open and honest. for me, personally, i have no aura of mystery haha. i am who i am and everyone, including my FH, knows me and loves me for me. now having said that, i dont tweeze my eyebrows in front of him or wax my arms cos i think its not necessary for couples to share everything... i guess it depends on what that mystery is. if he's keeping things from me, like his friends or what he does after work, thats not cool. if he doesnt want to tell me he waxes his back, i'm totally cool with that! ewww hairy backs lol
not sure about this... i think the little things matter to men as much as they do to women- they just express themselves differently. bottom line is, men need to communicate and be open about whats bugging them. and women need to understand that men respond differently to little things and sometimes, they just genuinely dont get it. thats ok too. keep talking, it'll resolve itself.
treat their girl like a princess means take care of her. dont think giving her half your paycheque and buying her stuff means you're off the hook and dont need to give a **** about anything else. for couples to click, and marriages to work, both people involved need to treat each other with respect and show love. its not a superficial thing.
no, this bit is true. desi guys do diss their girls, as do gora guys. from personal experience, the difference i see is desi guys do it in front of family and frankly, i think if you have issues in your married life, your wife should be the first person you address them to. not your mother, not your nani, not anyone else. once you get the family involved, you take things to a whole another level and then its just unpleasant for everyone.
again, with this kind of thing, its hard to generalise, but then its also hard not to.... hrm. anyone else want to give it a go?