Re: What do girls look for in a Guy?
Women/girls don’t really know what they want in their men. They have a vague cloudy picture of a perfect man, but that perfect man has so many conflicting traits that he cannot exist.
**Well, if we DID list exactly what we wanted, then you’d guys complain that we’re picky and living in la-la land. when we try to be flexible and not too picky, you call us vague and cloudy.. 
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1- a good sense of humour: That has become the in-fad thing to say, which actually is not trully understood. Ask a girl what she means by a good sense of humour and you will find that there are a lot of sensitivities invloved. Humour which is not understood is not taken well. Humour directed at her is not taken well.
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Depends on the humour, and it really depends on every person..my husband has a really good sense of humour and can crack me up and makes me laugh alot…but he doesnt make mean, petty jokes at my xpense.. **
2- a level of mystery: That is completely opposite of my observation. Women want their men to be completely open and without any mystery. Women, themselves, want to leave an aura a mystery around them. Women don’t feel comfortable around men who can read women easily.
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I think by aura of mystery, we mean that he shouldn’t fart in front of us (at least for ht 1 st year of marriage).
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3- how much little things matter: Women don’t realise the implication of this. Men mostly learn from experience how much little things matter and what are those little things. Then they learn to compromise on those things. Those men for whom little things matter are usually self-centered and will not usually see why the same little things matter in other person’s life.
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i think generally speaking, men tend to look at the bigger picture more while women focus on the details. Both have thier benefits but be annoying/damaging if done too much…**
4- Treat their girl like a princess: Basically, this means don’t look at my faults as my shortcomings but accept my faults as something beautiful and unworldly. Whenever she commits a mistake, forget it immediately but don’t expect the same in return.**
Er no, treating like a princess means, loving and cherishing them and not taking them for granted. Help them to improve their flaws, but don’t belittle or degrade them just for having faults. **
From what I see, the question varies from person to person. The thought process is slowly taking over the importance of physical outlook. Unconsiously, I think, we look for a person with the qualities, which we are missing in our own self.
**Maybe so. Someone whos hot tempered and very emotional is probably better off with someone who has alot of patience and is coolheaded.. because two hotheaded ppl will just end up killing each other 
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