I get the attention part but that might be for numerous reasons considering someone’s upbringing and the environment they themselves were raised in, schooling probably. But what IF your hubby wasn’t appreciative of what you did everyday considering its all for him. Its a what if, but how would you react or feel? Maybe that’s where it starts from. Not all moms are whiney, sometimes they really are screaming out for attention their not getting. Like someone said, you don’t know the ins and out of a marriage to realize where they are coming from.
I think though your talking about girls who were never really career people anyway and chose not to necessarily work ever unless they wanted to. Like people who knew motherhood would be their occupation from day 1. Honestly, in that regard that’s why I feel like its so important to make sure you always keep all your options open and you have something else to fall back on because “the grass isn’t always greener on the other side.” Reality hits sometimes when it’s too late.