WOW Reha, so you can use your sister’s examples, your friends example to make up your opinion about things, but no one else can.
The example where you used your working friend returning to work 3 months after delivery IS AMAZING, i had to do the same thing. I could afford a daycare but asked my mother to take care of the LO. Once i got home i didn’t let my mother do anything else…stayed up late if i had to with the baby and didn’t let my mother take care of the LO during the night…since that was the only time i got with the baby. MY friends who are SAHM are always asking me how do i do so much. They don’t even get a chance to cook a meal most of the time. BUT do have time for yoga, shopping etc.
I am no saying that they have it easier, but they sure don’t have it as hard as working moms. And it really seems like your opinion is it…so i won’t argue with you since its useless.