Oh nice one. I am glad we’ve sorted this out - cheating is the same for both men and women! Phew. Some men make it sound like they’re an entire different species and same rules don’t apply to them. 
Yes sir. The real question is will you marry someone who is all blah blah blah and then more blah blah blah then my girlfriend said blah blah blha so blah blah blah? 
Ah you had to touch that! Well, it IS the same for both men and women AND both do that. The difference, however, is that women are equipped with emotional tantrums and have evolved to make a man feel like chit - and yes, the degree of insecurity and blaming. Sounds biased? scroll through the life1 threads.
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No choice.
Ah you had to touch that! Well, it IS the same for both men and women AND both do that. The difference, however, is that women are equipped with emotional tantrums and have evolved to make a man feel like chit - and yes, the degree of insecurity and blaming. Sounds biased? scroll through the life1 threads.
Good for women, about time. They're finally starting to speak up for themselves. Go women! :AID:
Good for women, about time. They're finally starting to speak up for themselves. Go women! :AID:
So they have started speaking up for themselves just now???
They have nagged men for ages, it has been like that since the pre-historic times. Why do you think dinosaurs gave up on life and decided not to breed? Jeez, women!
Darn, women have much more power than they know of - must make full use of it ladies 
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So they have started speaking up for themselves just now???
They have nagged men for ages, it has been like that since the pre-historic times. Why do you think dinosaurs gave up on life and decided not to breed? Jeez, women!
nagged to death !! my man.
they say guy die before women , as guys defence mechanism.
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And now the best part, before you join hands to unite women, do you know what is the most dangerous thing for a woman?
Another woman.
Yup, divided you stand, united you fall 
You might actually be right about that.
So they have started speaking up for themselves just now???
They have nagged men for ages, it has been like that since the pre-historic times. Why do you think dinosaurs gave up on life and decided not to breed? Jeez, women!
Here is a good one...
"I haven't spoken to my wife in 18 months -------
I don't like to interrupt her. "
Definition of cheating will vary widely - depending on whether you are conservative, open minded, secure or insecure, or a plain swinger.
However IMO - In normal circumstances, once in a committed relationship, any emotional/intimate/physical interest in a member of the opposite sex (and in some cases, same sex) would qualify for cheating. My idea/guage is, dont poke where you wont like your partner to be poking.
I believe you're on a roll here...BonBon agrees with you one more time!!!!!!
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We all know when we're doing something wrong...it feels wrong. There is a reason for that...its our own little warning bell that goes off when we're headed in a direction that isnt right.
Cheating isnt something that really needs to be defined, we're adults. Not children. We know when we're being unfaithful in the mind, heart or body.
lolzzzzzzz
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So given the fundamental differences between men and women, would cheating have different limitations for them? Men are more prone to cheating physically, due to the lack of physical and emotional intimacy and what not. Women seek a shoulder to lean against, owing to similar reasons. So if a man cheats physically, or a woman gets emotionally intimate with someone else, would it be somewhat the same 'level' of cheating?
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^ Dude that was the question I was asking and males said it's the same for both genders.
^ Dude that was the question I was asking and males said it's the same for both genders.
I think it's not the same, and a clearer definition is required. Cheating should be categorized on different levels of physical and emotional intimacy.
For (some)men physicality precedes emotionality. For women, emotionality precedes physicality. However, in each case, be it physical or emotional involvement, they could be at the same level in terms of cheating. You can not have a unifying scale for cheating, as to say that you must cross all levels of emotional intimacy to transcend into the lowest level of physicality or vice versa.
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^ Physical cheating and emotional cheating will never be the same.
Do you realize the difference between an email and a kiss??????????????????
LOL!!! Funniest thing I have read in a while!!
Jaanwar do you mind if I use this as my signature or something? It’s too good!
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Watching as Jaanwar's head swells up