What comes first....

[Mehnaz]

Re: What comes first…

@Sehrysh

My issue isn’t who should pay, but didn’t they discuss her ability to pay for the loans before they got married? They should have agreed before the wedding how the loan was to be paid - maybe deferring the wedding a few years so she could save up and pay it off, or them living in a location where she was able to continue working to pay the loan.

Now that they’re married, if he’s unwilling to help her, him being unwilling to also give her the means to pay it off is also a hindrance.

People hide debt all the time. It only comes out when couples apply for a mortgage … and then ooops, one of them has a lien registered against them.

If he has the means, he should help her … especially since she cannot work in the country where he lives.

I’m also assuming his spending isn’t just limited to his parents?