what can i do to make it better?

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so my fiance is dont trust me cuz of his experience with some girl who cheated on him … i love my fiance and is very loyal to him cuz he is my first love… so what can i do to make him trust me … this is long distance he is in pakistan and i am USA…

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what do you mean by dont trust you? how do you know that? is he asking for your FB passwords, wants to know whom you are txting, want to read your emails?

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lol, you need trolling 101. ask around, there are many masters here.

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if he trusted her, he wouldn't just be engaged... they'd be making babies already.

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he has just recently said that y is this guy commenting on ur pic or y u liking this guys pic on fb and every time we talk and i would joke around that your my dad choice cuz our rishta is totally arrange.. his reply is yea i know i am not choice ...i am like how u find meaning out of my simple things

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I am confused. I would rather like to think that you are in Pakistan and not in USA :(

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hahha what makes u think likke that and i am not that experience in the realtionship thing

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skype nadz123 style

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what does make him you untrustable? If his experience was not good with others, this is clear sign of stereotype. I can understand your love and loyalty to him, as it is your first love. I hope your feelings are not temporary for him. Have you asked him, what is his criteria of feeling you more trustable.

Now, your second post is childish. I can understand his jealously, but world is not like this. How come he stop you in his married life when you interact with loads of people, some of them would praise you and compliment you. It may hurt his feelings in future. What I am saying that he is acting like a child. Do you think, it is good quality.

And finally, he is not able to understand your simple joke, dont you think it could create problem in future.

:chai:

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:eek: wot du u mean? :wink:

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Cheat on him.

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This is who he is. Bad experiences don't make good people bad.

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You took the words out of my mouth :confused: :bummer:

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Are you viewing numerous red flags?

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I dont know, what I felt I said. what do you think?

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I believe Trust is all we have in a relationship --- a Mother trust her Kids are doing nothing bad outside etc etc a father same about Kids- between brothers----husband and wife------- between partners ---- employer and employee --etc etc ---

The basic Foundation component is TRUST -- if He/She/they/them----> can not Trust each other they must re-think again and again

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here we go again..

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@OP.

And why in the world ya would even consider him a marriage material if he acts like that?? Ya need to really sit down and think about what you want in life. Can you live with this psycho?. If your answer is no. Then talk to ya're elders and let this one go. Secondly, when ya said " what can i do to make it better"..well fact is ya can't!. Full stop. Instead ya should asking, how can HE make his behaviour better. And as i see it yo..Allah knows best..but he doesn't sound like decent chap..

I hope ya find peace yo!

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May b thats not coz of his x but because of genral perception about Usa girls in pakistan? Has he told you abt his xx or u just guessing?

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^If it's his general perception about ABCDs in general perhaps he shouldn't be engaged to one in the first place..