What can be a possible solution?

[redvelvet]

Re: What can be a possible solution?

@Helpp

The problem is the the situation AFTER she makes a decision. Right now the mother is quite pissed and said she will deny and the girl can go ahead an die single. But see…if she lets this one go she doesn’t know of anyone else her mother will EVER consider. Her mother is VERY stubborn and is an extremist so I wont be surprised if she tortures her for a while and when she sees her age slipping away, she’ll give her the same options again and she’ll have to give up. What exactly can she do after denying to guarantee a somewhat better future?

Okay, let’s say that you make up you mind that you don’t want to marry him. Your mom refuses the rishta…and you stand your ground…no matter the guilt trips etc. If your mom is so concerned about you getting older…then I doubt that she’d be so stubborn as to not consider ANY guy at all (not even someone you find on your own)…she’d be hurting you/shooting herself in the foot by doing that. She’s trying to corner you now…by forcing your cousin on you. But if you don’t marry him…you’ll be cornering her by putting her in a situation where she WILL eventually have to agree on a rishta from outside of the family. So, she’ll either give in to you…OR…she’ll carry a grudge and not let you marry anyone at all. Could go either way. I’m hoping it would be the former and not the latter.