Re: What are your thoughts on polygamous marriage/being a co-wife?
You are misunderstanding that example. That example validates what I am saying (informing), and not what you are saying (consent). Prophet and Hazrat Faitma were informed of Hazrat Ali planing to marry Abu Jehal’s daughter. At that time, prophet or Hazrat Fatima did not say no. They said that Ali if you want to, then you have to leave Fatima. This is exactly I am saying, that you have to inform the first wife, and she can decided to stay with you, or leave you. At the end, Hazrat Ali changed his decision, as he wanted to stay with Hazrat Fatima.