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Why don’t you simply give me an answer to my post? Did I shut you down and this what you have left to say? Insha’Allah when Allah gives me the opportunity to adopt I will do that, but what nonsense is that Now? Adopting a child, but NOT wanting a own child, lol…you’re hilarious, I took you serious but I guess I shouldn’t…
**NOT ONLY I HAVE A RESPONSIBILITY TOWARDS MAKIND, BUT EVERY HUMAN BEING HAS. DON’T FORGET THAT…THANK YOU.
I’m back, I’m back **
See what I mean?
Ummat ko barhane ke aur tareeqey bhi hein…inko sirf ek samajh mein aata hai…dher saare bache paida karo. 
Aur to kisi kaam ke to ho nahin…lekin bache paida karne ke liye sabse aage!
When you say we all have a responsibility towards mankind, what do you mean? Just to make more of mankind or take care of the ones that have been given to us already? Do you not see enough mankind in the world to take care of that you want to start your own little village? Kahin apko mankind ki kami nazar arahi hai???
Itne saare bhooke, gharib, majboor, lachar, boorhe aur bache tumko nazar nahin arahe hein kya???
Im pretty sure that mankind will benefit more from you if you decided to take care of what Allah has given you already.
Ab jao aur mera dimagh khana band karo. 
Re: What are the REASONS for wanting no childs or waiting more than 3 years?
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I’m surprised how you actually side-tracked the thread.
Thank You. Are we done Now as I’m not Kisi Kaam Ka? Aren’t you gettin’ a bit too personal here and attacking me? I’m surprised how you can keep on misqouting me…I’m really surprised. What are you doing here then, go and help the Ummat, adopt a child, help the bhooke, majboor, lachar, boorhe aur BACHE…
**I edited these last sentences as this is not the right approach. Peace. May Allah bless you all with all his bounties. Ameen.
Mods, you can close this thread now. Thank You.
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Re: What are the REASONS for wanting no childs or waiting more than 3 years?
My reasons for not wanting a child just yet are very clear and obvious at this point of my life. At this moment, I am currently still in a university to get my degree. I also am working part time. My husband and I live in a very very small apartment where a baby wouldn't be suited. We have not saved enough yet to have a child and are continuing to do so. We both also are newly married and want a few years to ourselves to truly get to know each other and do things that would not be possible once a baby is born. I'A when I decide to have a baby I hope that: I am done with going to school and have my degree, have a decent job in my field, live in a safe and clean as well as middle class neighborhood with friendly people, my husband makes a very decent salary, we own a car, there is a mosque nearby and we have made a good amount of friends to support us ( support us as in be there for us emotionally as good friends are) I'A Allah shall decide when these things happen and are fulfilled so that my husband and I can have a blessing in the form of a baby. At the moment all I can say is we are not going to ahve baby for at least another two to five years.