What are the REASONS for wanting no childs or waiting more than 3 years?

CorruptAngel · September 16, 2008, 4:26pm

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Yes, you’re right! BUT THESE ARE NOT PROBLEMS. THESE ARE EXCUSES! Who tells you to live a expensive life? And how much does a kid cost? In the first 3 years? Very Funny
It costs you nerves. Nothing more.

Can’t we say that people who wait for more than 3 years are on honeymoon since 3 years? Which responsibilities are you talking about? Parents? Did they moan when you were their responsibility? Did they come to GS? Ok they didn’t have GS and that is GOOD, very very GOOD. Otherwise this board would’ve been flooded with unimportant stuff.

We are not here to judge, but C’mon those are childish excuses. The student loan office doesn’t tell you to pay the money back straight away graduating from studies. Would be fine, would give me more strength to do something, not for me, but for my child.

I want to raise my children mazbi, not wordly. I want them to be moderate, not Arrogant and SPOILED.

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I don’t want to judge, it is just my OPINION.

Couples who wait to get to know each other first before settling down for a family, they have a valid reason. BUT, All Scenarios like graduating from studies,… student loan, parents, siblings etc. These are all lame ‘excuses’ in my eyes. Thank you for taking your time and reading my comment.

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So, you’re of the opinion that women should not go to college to study after marriage even if for some unfortunate reason they weren’t unable to finish their degree ?