Re: What are the REASONS for wanting no childs or waiting more than 3 years?
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Yes, you're right! BUT THESE ARE NOT PROBLEMS. THESE ARE EXCUSES! Who tells you to live a expensive life? And how much does a kid cost? In the first 3 years? Very Funny :)
It costs you nerves. Nothing more.
Really, what city/world are you living in?? It has nothing to do with living an 'expensive' life!! I am not sure what exactly you are calling expense...a home..a car,insurances, funds, etc.. if you are saving up for your child's (not children) first 3 years..GOOD LUCK..times are getting harder.
Can't we say that people who wait for more than 3 years are on honeymoon since 3 years?
*NO!! get out of your shell..and look around. When you see couples struggling to make ends meet..do you ask them "whens the baby coming" how mazhabi of you!! *
Which responsibilities are you talking about? Parents? Did they moan when you were their responsibility?
they do advice us to plan plan plan!!! so we dont have to face the problems they did!!! so we can learn from their mistakes...not repeat them!!