Re: What are the REASONS for wanting no childs or waiting more than 3 years?
First of all Kevyan, you do not have the right to declare someone's financial problems as unnecessary.......there are many issues/obstacles involved when it comes to becoming a responsible parent(s)...especially when you are just starting off with your life as a newly married couple...for example, student loans, graduate studies, job lay-offs, responsibilities of parents or siblings etc!! so it may be easy for you to say such things qualify as unnecessary..but for people in such situations...it is not a joke...its LIFE!! and life does NOT necessarily throw things at you chronologically...ie marriage-honeymoon-kids---the end--!
2ndly...why would you even judge!! the couple knows better what situation they are in, how much help they have...when to do what...all based on THEIR lives!!! why put every couple under the same lens and have such expectations??? think about it..and be considerate to their problems...only then you will be able to understand and stay quiet..instead of pointing fingers at them..and making the couple feel as if they are committing a crime!!