Re: What are the REASONS for wanting no childs or waiting more than 3 years?
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and it's okay to marry while you are studying, right? Then you don't have expenses, right? You only have expenses when a thir human being comes in to the game, but all in all I really do not care as I have learnt to accept your views. It is ok, what can I say? I don't want to say anything...I said lame excuses, it was a mistake.
I just aked why waiting more than 3 years? 3 years aren't enought to know your spouse as it seems to me. How will it be enough if both are busy in studies and don't have time like a couple which has brought all behind them and then opt for a marriage. What a stupid excuse. I never said to have babies straight away.
If you were that High Educated couldn't you tell me in a polite manner, you are wrong? I think that is what High Education is expecting of you, but NO, A Rollercoaster rode over me with false accusations.
Did I ANYWHERE say that people who have a normal life aren't DEENI? I only said that High Education should not stand between a potential new born. You want to be like man, then face the concenques. You can study your whole life as Islam encourages you to study your whole life and nowhere did I say that you are baby making machines or did?
Anywayh this is done for me as you seem to be more Educated to me and I don't want to face a rollercoaster of false accusations again.
May Allah be pleased with you