What are the REASONS for wanting no childs or waiting more than 3 years?

you summed it up perfectly..:k:

most of the times, it’s a mutual decision to wait to have a baby. I’m sure the married guppans who posted in this thread aren’t forcing down their selfish decisions on their hubbies. Men these days are realising what a big responsibility it is to raise a child. Also the global culture is changing, people don’t pay much attention to you if you dont have a degree. God forbid, if a family is in a financial crisis, women can always get a ‘decent’ job and not flip burgers at McDonalds. And it’s not the only issue, education is a beautiful thing. It enriches your mind and general knowledge. It can never poison anyone’s mind, it’s the person’s individual choice. Okay my laptop battery is running so bye.