Re: what are the chances that your BIL fancies you?
In alot of desi families.. mainly Pakistan, bhabis and devars share a special relationship. In my family, a bhabi is considered a motherly figure or like an older sister.. and Im sure it's like that in many, many families. It's a usual thing for BILs to take care of their bhabis and joke around.. it's all about how you perceive it. Holding hands, sharing plates is a bit too much but if he's just being friendly with you then there's no need to take it the wrong way. If you can't even be normal with your BIL and feel like he's hitting on you then you probably think every man fancies you.