What age is appropriate for dating?

[Deeba1234]

Re: What age is appropriate for dating?

@candy_apple

Another thing to keep in mind is that the girls that are “loose” and “casual date” freely will have trouble getting rishtas if they want to go the arranged route (which so many do because they have a bad rep and no one wants to marry them). On top of that many families during the whole arranged marriage thing do “reference checks” on girls. My own sluty cousin had a reference check done on her and the family rejected her. In the end, she had to marry a guy she met off the internet who lived in another country because everyone here knew about her.

True but don’t u think in 20 or so years time when our kids are marrying the arranged marriage system will be practised wayyy less in the west than it is now.. Our parents have obviously carried it on as it’s what they know best but for those of us who’ve grown up in the UK or US or wherever it prob won’t be seen as a ‘necessary’ thing to look for a spouse for them.. Imo things that are taboo right now such as marrying black ppl will become a lot more commonplace and accepted in this next generation and the investigation of a girl’s private life whilst overlooking any relationships that the guy might have had will become less widespread.. Already down here in London it’s no longer seen as such a massive deal to marry a non-Pakistani (Muslim) the way it was 15/20 years ago.. when I was little I used to hear of girls being disowned for doing it..

I don’t know many girls who have dated then later gone down the arranged marriage route (out of choice anyway lol), usually these girls have a different mindset and go on to marry their bfs (I’m not talking about serial bed hoppers, I mean those who are in proper relationships..)