wet dreams :(

ok can some one please tell me how to prevent them…man they r soooo anoying, its like so hard to clean up n every thing…lol

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thanx…

[This message has been edited by Shehzaada (edited October 02, 2001).]

Get up in the middle of the night and read tahaj-judd!!!

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“I am not playing with a full deck!”

lol, i’v tryed doing that the night b4 exam results, i fell asleeep on the prayer mat

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its really bad cuz i have to do ghusl @ fajr time, man it's sooo0o0000000ooooo anoying...

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hmmmmmmmm…i don’t want to sound stupid, but i never understood what they are, and do only guys have that

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???


“Just when you think things can’t get any worse, they do. I’ve learned that life is like hour glass sand. Sooner or later, everything hits rock bottom, but all you have to do is be patient and wait for something to turn everything back around.”

hmm, don't worry about it. I guess you're in the 15-18 age group. I think it gets better as you grow older, according to my male confidantes.

Well, in your case (differs from one to another) try fasting, and don't sleep right after eating.

Avoid eating food excessively high in fat/protein at night.

Keep your niat clean before you sleep. Sleep on your right hand side or on your back.

Avoid sleeping on your left hand side and on stomach.

Prepare yourself mentally that its only temporary satisfaction.

Work out if you have to before you sleep so that you sleep exhausted.

Most of all and I said it before and I'm saying it again IF YOUR NIAT IS CLEAN FROM ALL EROTIC THOUGHTS THEN YOU WILL BE TOO.

Then again, your only a teenager . . . regardless, learn to control your will and keep your eyes from wandering about.

Follow these steps and you won't be falling into the category of wet dreamers and how its normal, because I personally think is not and is avoidable at all times.


Jitna Diya Sarkar Nay Mujko, Itni Meri Auqat Nahi, Yeh Saab Tumhara Karam Hai Aqa, Mujh Mein Aisi Koi Baat Nahin.

Love happens once . . .

meray gol matol shehzaada, i think u are still young enuff to be asking such a question.

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don’t stress out too much from it. just enjoy this phase of yours for the time being !

Aphrodite i agree with you. It’s a natural process and everything natural should not be avoided.
Time will stop it… til then. Enjoy it!

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*“Ishq bhi ho Hijaab mein husn bhi ho Hijaab mein. Ya tu khud Aaskhaar ho ya mujh ko Aaskhaar kar.”
*

Dude… wait till Health class takes it course…
and ask your teacher… but don’t refer it as
‘some stuff’ cuz it just shows immaturity…

CoConut gave a pretty straight forward response…

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** Mu Hu Hahahahahaha!**:hoonh:
"Quote the Mu,“NeverMu!”
Yeh Duniya Bi Kitni Doh Rangi Hain
Agar Pyar Maango toh Hasrat Millegi
Chaman Zindagi ke Hazaaron Killeinge
Magar Eik Dil ki Kali Nah Kiley Gi.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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Did i hear alright Cat ?

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By the time it gets better ,you didnt tell him how old he will be?

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(note to cat ,im joking so dont be upset if you dont understand all)

By then he’ll wish that he had more (viagra needing bob dole)

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Who r ur confidantes Cat ?I mean what age group?

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P.s. do you want a copy of your analytical report ?


Woh afsaana jise anjaam tak, laana na ho mumkin
Use ek KHoobsoorat moR dekar, chhoRna achha

Jub cup bhar jaata hai, to chalakna laazmi hai na?

It is a natural process. Don't worry about it, you be fine. You are not the only one as all Men in their teenage got through this and even it happens so adult men as well.

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thanx 4 your replys every body, G0d blesS u all..

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one thing you can try is : read sura-e-Tariq, upto the ayat that ends with “naasir”.

shehzada,besides ALL advice so far

Remember this is one area ,about which there is more MIS INFORMATION THAN INFORMATIONS b/c real informatrion is so simple that medicine man ,snake oil salesman.nutritionists ,pill pushers ,psychologists,will take advantage of you .theologist (avoid mullah & fundanentalists).Your buddies & friends be your support .Yes the advice of ayat is good b/c it stops your mind from wandering to much & focuses on your self.

[This message has been edited by FYI (edited September 12, 2001).]

  • the basic measure is to keep them cool, it has been observed that increase in temperature may result in such explosions. so do not over heat them, wear light clothes, avoid going to bed in underwears and blankets especially are a big no no... also dont forget to keep your room well ventilated.

  • the other remedy is to recite darood before going to sleep, which is a good habit though.

if it is difficult simply forget worring about it, just enjoy a new map every morning.

[This message has been edited by raaj-dulara (edited September 13, 2001).]

Excellent advice by raajdulara. Heat definitely has an effect on explosive factor.

Wear some sort of clothing at night. This way, you can just get rid of the gooey 'jamas rather than have to clean the sheets every time.

just enjoy a new map every morning.

Now there speaks the voice of experience...

It helps to wear underwear at night.. at least then the mess is contained.

Hmm I dont know about this ... but is masturbation forbidded in Islam?