You can't possibly compare goriz with desi girls. In goriz culture, it is OK to wear short and revealing dresses. They can go out and wear a bikini on a beach. And it's perfectly fine and socially acceptable. But can a desi (muslim) girl do that? HELL NO. So that comparsion holds no validity at all.
Now as far as some homeland girls making out in netcafes, you're absouletely correct. Some girls do indeed do that. But as pointed out by the original guppie, ON AVERAGE you'll find more abcds who have put out on prom night with their gora bf or got drunk & made out with their kallu bf during ladies night at their favorite club, than girls from the homeland making porno net cafe videos.
I'd like to see one of you "hot" abcd guys just TRY to get in the pants of a "gori" gal,,,,you;d end up with a black eye IF you're lucky. If you're not lucky, you'll end up in the hospital.
"gori" gals dress in the fashion that is current in THIS country in THIS time. They fit in. NOT ALL goris dress in these porno-type clothes that leave nothing to the imagination yet it IS ok IN THIS COUNTRY to reveal much more than is acceptable "over there". Things are DIFFERENT. Culture and People are DIFFERENT. why is this so hard to accept - that if a woman shows her hair or her arms it doesnt mean that she's a "hoe"....and if you disagree, like I said....just TRY to get in her pants. I quite guarantee that if you dont end up in the hospital, you;ll at least end up in jail for being a pig.
"gori" gals dress in the fashion that is current in THIS country in THIS time. They fit in. NOT ALL goris dress in these porno-type clothes that leave nothing to the imagination yet it IS ok IN THIS COUNTRY to reveal much more than is acceptable "over there". Things are DIFFERENT. Culture and People are DIFFERENT. why is this so hard to accept - that if a woman shows her hair or her arms it doesnt mean that she's a "hoe"....and if you disagree, like I said....just TRY to get in her pants. I quite guarantee that if you dont end up in the hospital, you;ll at least end up in jail for being a pig.
Haha I love the way you try to manipulate men into tinhinking otherwise when its obvious to you and obvious to me that the majority of white girls are alot easier to get in the pants of than desi girls. Most desi girls tend to be all prudish and it takes sometimes many dates/meetings to be able to get in their pants, it can take up2 a yr with some and this includes convincing her that shes the 'one'. With white girls, the max you need is to meet her thrice to get into her pants (its just a trend abit like fashion as you mentioned earlier, doesn't make them a hoe either). Ahh and yes these are generalisations being based and compared on the majorities of each race.
Yes you're right its fashion but I have noticed many young girls as young as 12-13 walking around in mini skirts and tube tops, can you elaborate on that?
all kinds of people are found in both the socities .
there maybe good women in the west but equally bad women in the east .
same goes for the guys . in the end what really matters is that which thing / attribute we value the most .
i have seen gurls wearing hijab and makin out with guys . on the contrary there are gurls who never wore a hijab , but we never into guys .
and simultaneously men also .
there maybe good women in the west but equally bad women in the east .
same goes for the guys . in the end what really matters is that which thing / attribute we value the most .
i have seen gurls wearing hijab and makin out with guys . on the contrary there are gurls who never wore a hijab , but we never into guys .
and simultaneously men also .
it's not east or west :)
remind me of this verse from Quran which goes something like: do not follow east nor west but what quran says. (something along these lines)
really, it doesn take much to judge a person's character (im not implyin here to be jugdmental in all circumtances and look down upon others if they dont fit ur criteria) rather if u are looking urself for a partner than it should be that hard to just observe the person for a while and make a sound judgement.
who cares if the person is raised in west or is from backhome, they're equally good and bad people on both sides. actually, that so-called shareef girl from pakistan may be the biggest munafiq!!
Mr lussi and mr misguided, sorry but "rates" are discussed with your mommy and daddy who are so desperately trying to buy a girl for you that would be willing to be your wife. With western gals, mommy and daddy have no say...you have to stand on your own merits without mommy and daddy buying your bride for you.
So sorry this is not intended to be considered my typical response to more typical and culturally aware individuals. Some people just need a good beeatch-slap to wake up and even then....well good luck to the poor gal who gets stuck with 'em.....
"gori" gals dress in the fashion that is current in THIS country in THIS time. They fit in. NOT ALL goris dress in these porno-type clothes that leave nothing to the imagination yet it IS ok IN THIS COUNTRY to reveal much more than is acceptable "over there". Things are DIFFERENT. Culture and People are DIFFERENT. why is this so hard to accept - that if a woman shows her hair or her arms it doesnt mean that she's a "hoe"....and if you disagree, like I said....just TRY to get in her pants. I quite guarantee that if you dont end up in the hospital, you;ll at least end up in jail for being a pig.
u say all this as if it hard to so, its not, the time it takes just varies a little, but the end result is the same, that goes for 95% of women.
So sorry this is not intended to be considered my typical response to more typical and culturally aware individuals. Some people just need a good beeatch-slap to wake up and even then....well good luck to the poor gal who gets stuck with 'em.....
lol..i dont see why you are arguing about this mamaof3..i mean it's a universally accepted fact that a gori is way way easier than a desi..if u wanan remain blind and dont accept it..then so be it..there is nothing i can do about it..
I'd like to ask you mr misguided....how old ARE you? You seem to have some pretty firm convictions on what you want in a wife and what you want for your family and yet some of your opinions seem so...well YOUNG. Or perhaps you have not been outside of a muslim country? I am not being mean here. Just curious. Why can you not accept other cultures, other peoples and the ways that they have? In the west, they see purdah as curious as you see mini-skirts and bare arms and heads. I can accept that and fit in in both worlds without feeling negatively about it but you think that its your way or the highway. You just cannot fathom that if a western gal shows arms and hair, she isnt looking to "get laid"....why cant you see and accept differences?
i know mama03..ive heard some horror stories too..but thats a very very small %..as compared to US where every girl probably has a bf in middle school..
its a cultural difference..desis want their girl to be pure before marriage..so while most goris get ridden like a village bycycle might be socially acceptable in US but definately not for a desi..
im sure he knows, i.e. net cafe videos...majority r innocent tho, same is the case in america (4 desi girls), but the culture influence is the major difference on why we prefer pakistani girls, several things r socially accepted and encouraged in u.s. that aren't in pakistan, and those influence the personality and views of girls here therefore making them more susceptible to sin.
That is SOO not true Lussi, you apparently either dont know any gori OR you look for gori in all the wrong places as they say....
True, dating is acceptable here. Sexual relations prior to marriage is also SOMEWHAT acceptable but that doesnt mean 2 or 3 dates and youre in. So sorry guys. I've seen as many GOOD gori as GOOD desi women, as many BAD gori as BAD desis....there really and truly isnt much difference when it all comes down to it. Wake up and smell the coffee dude.
True, dating is acceptable here. Sexual relations prior to marriage is also SOMEWHAT acceptable but that doesnt mean 2 or 3 dates and youre in. So sorry guys. I've seen as many GOOD gori as GOOD desi women, as many BAD gori as BAD desis....there really and truly isnt much difference when it all comes down to it. Wake up and smell the coffee dude.
lol..this is absurd..ok i think you're atleast in your 40s..cuz these days those young folks don't even need to "date" to get the groove on...nomesayn..and not even in after 3 dates? lol wtf the guy must be an idiot..