Western Girls Marrying and Living in Pakistan

has any girl raised in the west, gone back to get married and live in pakistan?

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I know of gori's who have married desis, gone back to Pakistan and settled there. Ofcourse the guys were somewhat well off.

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Benazir bhutto, until she had to leave. (She was not raised there though). Any ways there are many examples.

If Mukhtaran Mai, an uneducated woman was supposed to move to the west and live there, then any educated woman can live in Pakistan. People are even willing to start life on Mars as it is different.

It is not easy for some people to settle down here, due to weather, dust, humidity, lack of facilities and most recently due to maddrassas that are found here but are not visible to locals.

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yep. some of my immediate relatives moved back from UK to stay in pakistan for good. their kids just love it over there, one of them even married in pakistan n settled with a good job.

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A cousin of mine got married to my second cousin but she couldn’t manage it. Even though the guy is from one of the richest families in Lahore and provided her all the facilities but she just couldn’t adjust to the culture, people and environment.
It really depends on how much you can adapt to a new lifestyle. Realistically speaking, Pakistan is certainly not an upgrade to your current lifestyle. However, I am sure you will be around loving people and will pull through all the challenges.
As much as I know you, I think you have a very adaptive personality and positive approach towards everything..which I think is great and would be the key for you to settle in Pakistan. You have taken a very courageous step and I wish you all the best :slight_smile:

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ask SARA !

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:bummer: I dunno!!! And I dont wanna know :grumpy:

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We have such case in our family. The guy went to USA to study and married her ‘gori’ class fellow. Much to the consternation of her father, she left USA and came to Pakistan for good. But, such cases are rare.

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I am sure much to the consternation of his parents as well. :smiley:

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Well i know some girls they are Pakistani's but born in west and they got married in Pakistan and settled ova there. Meself im born in west and married with some1 from Pakistan but he setteld here in Holland.And like Fayz said you can live very luxury if ur
husband have a great job in Pk. But for my self i don't think i can live in Pakistan.

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My elder sister. Currently living in Quetta with her two daughters. Life is full of challenges, living in the west is challenging so is a life in Pak.

Where do you plan on settling?

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blushing_vision used to live in Germany. As far as I remember she got married last year. After that she has moved to Pakistan and still posts on Gupshup every now and then.

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My best mates elder sister. She got married 10 years ago to someone from the army and is living in Lahore right now. She finds it the tops and has become so part of the Pakistani culture and living there that when she comes back to UK she gets bored after a while.

She loves it heheh. So yah is do-able

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i am not going to open a new thread but what about

Western guys marrying and living in Pakistan? does it follow the same trend?

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That happens? Probably a rare .0001%

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i know quite a few girls who were born in the west who married guys from pakistan and while they went to pakistan saying they would live there with their husbands, they soon moved back because it was too hard for them.

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^^^ what is hard for them? culture? people? or Work?
or clubs and pubs?

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:smack:

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Probably all three. They didn't specify, they just said it is too difficult for them to live there.

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Yeah there are no clubs in Pakistan, ofcourse :rolleyes: We have sinless angels living back home don;t we. Maybe its people with thoughts like you expressed that make it hard for the girls to adjust in Pakistan.