icono...u sent yr grandma money as a gift..gift dey ker tola nahi jaata...u shld except a reward from Allah..uskay liyee ..and forget abt what yr grandma does with it..coz dats her personal business...coz woh jis merzii tarah spent ekrain dats her right..
apko kaisa lagay ga agar ..apki sis kahay ..I give my sis money to use it per woh apni grandma ko dey deyti hai jo mujhay bilkul nahi pasand..!
I know BKG, that why i keep sending her. But you know it still hurts you a bit when your money ends up where you did not want it to be.
and what yr dad does with hsi money dats his business..its not easy to give away money ..if u dont like it u can nicely tell him abt yr raaye..coz his terms with people r his personal terms..:)..
aur waisay bhi kisi ko mehnat k paisay dena is not an easy thing to do:)
app trust me ..kal ko jis merzii ko dena..it will b yr right:)app chahyee gareeboon ko dey dena ya greedy logon ko..:)..coz app jaisay spent keroogi waisa apka hisaab hoga..:)..money jahan insaan spent ekray and kispe..uska bhi hisaab hai..
and main paison ko fazool entertainment like clubs wagaira ki jagah kharach kerney k bajayee..greedy logon ko dena zyada pasand keroongi..coz sawab hi milay ga na..
and buhutkum greedy hotay hain..moft ka paisa ya bheek kisi ko nahi chahyee....but we need to udnerstand pakistan k halaat buhut loogon ko majboor ker deytay hain..
Icono be happy na coz apko naikiyaan mil rahi hai hain..And wiasya bhii maybe FOr yr grandma...dosron ki khushi zyada imp hai...:)..and if thats what makes her happy..let it b so:)...
haan do ask her k agar koi unhay force keray to use her money then u can always talk to them:)
^ i don't agree- he's giving his grandma his hard earned money so she can spend it on her OWN and get what she wants. when she starts giving it away to stupid people, it's basically as if your money is going down the drain and noone wants that.
and as for his dad, yes it IS ico's business, it's his father and he has a right to look out for him. he's throwing it away on some greedy people who think he's a rich guy who has money to give away all the time. what's going to happen tomorrow? god forbid, if his dad ever falls into a financial crisis, it's not those relatives who will come to help him out, it will be his own son. and please don't even give me this 'pakistan ke halaat kharab hain' and that's why they ask for money from people abroad. their 'halaats' are not kharab because of us. go work hard like everyone else does in your country, why do you have to rely on someone else? islam doesn't permit you ke aap kisi ke bhi aage haat phelaaen. everyone works hard to earn money, if they are working hard in pakistan to make enough money so is ico's dad.
loL..mr shay do u think his dad is stupid enuff to do sumthing jo unko maloom hai is not right?...koi na koi reason zaroor hoti hai???NOONE DOES IT..if its bothering him he can talk abt it ..because unkay personal terms unkay hain..kuch cheezain private hotii hain.
Seriously when i give my money to my friends..and my sis/ bro's interfere ..i feel like killing them...COZ They make my life hell..i am not stupid ..And i knw what i am doing..and i will b responsible for it...LIKAN When they tell my mom and all..phir she gets hurts..and mujhay ghussa ata hai k i ahve a private life..jismain i ahve a right to do what i do with MY MONEY!...
i give all my money to my mom except for kuch pocket money dat i keep..and agar muhay khushi miltii kabhii kisi ko kuch ley ekr denay main..tu why does otehrs have to create a big deal out of it..i am happy tu whats bothering dem
AND UNKI GRANDMA APNI Khushi se PAISAY dey rahi hain....AGAR woh fight ekrain grandma se she'll prolly b like...theekh hai if u think i am wasting yr money then dont give me yr money...per if tahts how i wnana spend my money ..main aisay hi ekroongi..unless someone's forcing his grandma to give her money..which is wrong..
agar woh apni khushi se ker rahi hai tu ismain kuch galat nahi..
agar if it botehrs him too much he can stop giving her..:)...
it's miss shay, not mr. first of all. i am sure you see the pink arrow below my name which clearly indicates that i am a girl. second, yes parents do stupid things when they are emotionally blackmailed. they are not always right, sometimes kids have intrude in. ico and his dad are at a stage where the son is NOT a kid who doesn't know what he's talking about. if your mom gets mad about it then that's your situation, not every parent is like that.
MISS SHAY!...SORRY ..coz i am new to this gupshup..i ahrldy knw how it works..khair yr opinion is yr opinion..and guess what..ONE DAY u guys will realize it too..!...
waisya bhi what do u wnat him to do....agar ussay nahi apsand what his fmaily does he can start cursing those jin ko uskay dad paisay deytay haiN???
samjhdaari issi main hogii if he talks to his dad..and if he still doesnt agree he can leave it up to him :)..its his life...he'll b responsible for what he does..GUnnah UNKAY hongaye..,KIYA kiya qayamat k rooz beta baap k gunnah apnay sir ley leyga, or vice verssa????NO!!!
As a son its his right to show his dad what is right and what is wrong..if his dad still thinks k his son is wrong then he shld back off :)..and just pray dat his dad realizes or he realizes if he's wrong..:)
Shay, I totally agree with you. It's just so silly the way some/most relatives back home are literally sitting back on their behinds and expecting their aunty/uncle/whoever to be supporting them all the way through. What kills it is when they're either too freaking lazy to get up and do something about it themselves OR when they simply don't care about doing something themselves.
And YES, it is perfectly sensible to be concerned about where your parents money is going.. because at times, as their children, you can see things that your parents can not see simply because they are the brothers/sisters/whatever of the relatives that they're sending money to.
actually...lets just say u guys r right..likan what can u guys do..agar zyada rebel keringaye..ghar main problems create hongii...une ko back stab keringaye tab gunnah hoga and tab it will hurt everyone.....so isliyee ..
TIP1...always talk abt it with yr parents k u dont like them sending money to them
TIp 2: if they still stick to their decision..phir ignore it and be happy...:)..and
tip 3) and khud k liyee make a note of it..k app apnay decisions ine mamloon main sahi se lain... emotionally blackmail apni baari main na hoon bus:)and try to not do what u felt k others did and was sumthing wrong:)
There was a time when my dad’s siblings back home would ask for money…just because they’re greedy. And he would send money WEEKLY to them…he has like 5+ siblings and the thing is they thought he sat at home all day and got money thrown into his pockets miraculously…now that he’s gone…they don’t know who to turn to…which is quite ironic because they were like these big babies who were spoilt rotten…anyways…let’s leave this to that wouldn’t want to get started here
Kaali billi..ab kiay ekr skahtay hain na...Atleast app loog tu dad ko support keroo..agar nahi app unkay decision se sehmat tu atleast be with him:)Help him..and sooner or later ..he will realize and not give them na:)..tension nahi leney ..life is too short tensions k liyee;)
jaisa SWEET If ne kaha.. ALLAH IS WATCHING na...Tu humain kiya tension lenii..agar ALLAH swt ko laga k unki intentions wrong thi tu kisi na kisi mordh pe Allah swt une ko bhi sabaaq sikha deyngay na:)..:)
OMG! The same happened with my dad his siblings and parents demanded money from him all the time. When I was born they obviously hated me coz aulaad aagayi thi aur obviously all the property etc bachay ko jati hai. THe others have moved one but one of my dad’s bro. (who lives in Pak) still expects him to give him everything. UGH! Hate ppl. like that, khud nahin kaam kar saktay jaise keh Apne bachay itne baray hain but unhain shehzaday ki tarhaan ghar par bethaya howa hai
wouldn’t want to get started here 
coz aulaad aagayi thi aur obviously all the property etc bachay ko jati hai. THe others have moved one but one of my dad’s bro. (who lives in Pak) still expects him to give him everything. UGH! Hate ppl. like that, khud nahin kaam kar saktay jaise keh 
Apne bachay itne baray hain but unhain shehzaday ki tarhaan ghar par bethaya howa hai