may b this toipc has been disscued many a times in this forum …but i am really sorry if i am raising it again, i really want to know if one can fall in love, or if love is more practicle and real then all its facination, and imagination.
and what kind of love will one prefer, what is love for u???
Listen Fido, Love is two bodies but one soul! I think falling in love is a beautiful feeling, though I have never been in love!
But I know exactly how it feels because I know alot people who r in love and r very happy!
My best friend and her bf r sooooooooooo happy together, I think they r the next Laila and Majnoo!!!
When I see them, I feel good, to see two souls meet!!
Well, I am just waiting for my Romeo to come!! (which is very soon, I hope!!)
what is this fanatical curiousity of the ladies to inquire about love? be patient gals, try to establish yourself first, then fantasize about your knights in shining armors. Nothing we will tell you about love will satisfy your urges anyway fido, so just wait and you will find out soon enough. :)
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sab bakwaas hai
chaar din ki chaandni phir andheri raat:)
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kabi kabi achii baat kartey ho. 
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[This message has been edited by Neera (edited October 13, 2000).]
There is NO such thing as love! Depends on who ever!
Stay Young Have fun
and drink lotsa milk
Sugar
thanx everyone for replying and try to make my mind clear.
well the reason i have asked this question(am i getting boring....?)...n e how the reason was that i really want some 1 to love and to b loved by, but my nature is to posessive, i never ever wanted to share my n ething i can sacrifice but i cant share and as far as my love is concerend no question of it , i want my love to b mine only and always b mine, i create a image of her, i idealize her as a goddes who is pure and only for me, i want to worship her and just me and her and her and me.(i am not out of my mind definetly, though it seems to b )....
so the kind of love i dreamed of is to imaginary and to much facinating, and offcourse to much demanding which i think a bit far away from reality ....so i dont think that a person can come up with that much expectations and fulfil that much demands.
and also i dont think that real love is that much easy to fall in , like the examples we gave of true love all of them have tragidic endings so...in my openion love is far more demanding and quite practicle than we think it is.and we are only facinated by its glory.
we can only imagine true love but we cant b in it cuz its too demanding,(this ofcourse my openion, and it can b wrong but its mine)
I don't believe in falling in love nor I have any intention of doing so. Don't know though about after marriage. But may be this has to do with the environment I have brought up in.
Fido you are right that you want your lover to be only yours and you want to possess him or her. That only happens when two people are deeply in love and they REALLY care about their partner. Believe me it's possible and there are many true lovers out there who possess their partners but the partner loves to be in their possession. You have to be able to givein order to find your true lover.
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Q.well should one fall in love?
A.when he is insane!...
**originally posted by Neera:
I totally disagree with kaka malang and Sherraz. I think they have never experienced TRUE love in their lives. Not everyone is able to love another person from all their heart. Therefore those who really find a true lover do so because they really deserved someone made specially for them. And that special person remains their love for the rest of their lives..
LOVE IS A BLESSING!!!**
can you specify what you are basing your lame comments on about me denying the existence of love? 
read my post with your mind open (if that is possible)
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Originally posted by sherrybaba:
Q.well should one fall in love?
A.when he is insane!...
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Well it'll sound ok if you take it in a funny sense, but actually it ain't true.
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Kaka malang I am sorry. Your have the same face as The Watcher. I was really mentioning him not you.
Love is great only when you get the person you love.
Love is horrible most despicable thing there is when you do not get the person you love.
Neera, When you love, and you do not get the person you loved, you will be feeling same as many of us. I ll be standing at the finish line to welcome you to the club.
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Do you guys really know from where you actually find "true love" .. you get it from yer parents and if you are lucky you get it from yer wife/husband too...
Having gf/bf is just bakwaas, an excuse to get physical and to exchange false feelings thanks to the movies like romeo or juliet or any chick flick movie..!
The Watcher, in my opinion there isn't such thing as one-sided love. And unfortunately you won't be able to welcome me into that club cause I'll be gone with my Lover;)
And by the way, thank you for saying it politely.
Wow, so you already have a lover. Mubarak, Mubarak. I wish you good luck.
Does he treat you as a GF or mehbooba?
I find GF/BF relations pretty cheap and commonly misused in societies.
Actually, I never mentioned one-sided love, did I? Why would you assume that it was one-sided love?
Does you family know about it? Or is it a dream come true?
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