waise i EXACTLY have the same issues with a few of the pakistani women living abroad. Not all of them but mostly. Even at just some random lunch/dinner, I have seen some of them dressed up in total chamchamate BHARKEELE kapre straight from the jahez trunk 
(a little exaggerated) but honestly why is that!?! 
A distant cousin showed me some pictures of her graduation party. And before she told me that, I was like…umm hey was this some wedding !? and she looks at me as if I have bitten a bug 