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I am definitely proud of your husband. As dope said..invite her for threesome and get it out of her system.
no way!! i trust my husband but not this girl...i want her faaaaaaaaaar faaaaaaar away from my hubby!
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Well maybe he likes her or can't find another rishta...whatever. But you, my friend, be watchful of these friendly women who try to take up space in your life and disturb the status quo.
i've met his mom n sisters n they have found many girls for him but he rejects them all...
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The glass, as they say, is half full. Your husband seems to be a decent fellow. Be good to each other - rest is not important.
My guess is you may run across this lady about twice a year. No biggie. Stay cool, be courteous, dont make a big deal. Dont know much abt Facebook, but I am sure there are ways of defriending her.
as i mentioned earlier..i had no worries abt this girl until i discovered she's becoming part of the family soon!!
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very strange and weird situation. I have a feeling that she is marrying the cousin to be a part of the family and somehow get closer to your husband. I say dont try to be her friend and deny any future contacts with her who knows whats going on in her sick mind.
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as i mentioned earlier..i had no worries abt this girl until i discovered she's becoming part of the family soon!!
I understand that. I am operatingunder the assumption you are not one bigjoint family living under one roof. So I think your families may not cross each pther'spath too often - maybe 6 times a year? Even if it is more often, as an adult, it is up to you to keepp it cool when you run into her.
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I dont think u have a problem then
yup they r pretty close...but i believe that once this girl marries his cousin my husband will be avoiding them
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^ Nice catch (Kolaveri) D. I missed that. You might just have solved this problem.
Now, do you have a solution for insomnia? (OK dont respond to this and derail thread :)
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very strange and weird situation. I have a feeling that she is marrying the cousin to be a part of the family and somehow get closer to your husband. I say dont try to be her friend and deny any future contacts with her who knows whats going on in her sick mind.
thats exactly my fear too...but i'll try n follow the most common advise i got in this thread n avoid her
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thats wat i’ll do thanx 
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^ All the Beshtest!
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^ All the Beshtest!
thanx... i just dont want to ruin my life worrying abt this girl nor do i wish any bad for her... hope her intentions r good
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Hah she added you on fb so she can see your hubby’s pics thru your albums 
Keep your distance from her, be polite but not over-friendly. When this girl marries the cousin, how often will you see her? If it’s an occasional meeting at common weddings, family get-togethers, it shouldn’t be a problem. However, don’t encourage any more meetings. I’m sure she’ll settle down once she realizes that your hubby is simply not interested.
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Hah she added you on fb so she can see your hubby's pics thru your albums :D
Keep your distance from her, be polite but not over-friendly. When this girl marries the cousin, how often will you see her? If it's an occasional meeting at common weddings, family get-togethers, it shouldn't be a problem. However, don't encourage any more meetings. I'm sure she'll settle down once she realizes that your hubby is simply not interested.
lol... no i dont have my hubby's pics in my album :D
im being polite with her although my husband asked me to tell her straight away that im so n so's wife & u better stop bothering him n blah blah... u think she wud've got the msg as in the past 3 yrs my husband hardly ever replied to her mails...
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lol... no i dont have my hubby's pics in my album :D
Lol, ok - bet she was disappointed ;)
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She's 16..so she's been after your husband since the age of 13?? Good lord what craziness.
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uhunh 
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She's 16..so she's been after your husband since the age of 13?? Good lord what craziness.
no...my nand is 16 n being the last born she's very childish... i dont want her getting any wrong idea abt her elder bro!!
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he is not at all bothered wat im worried is after she becomes part of the family how do i behave around her knowing abt her feelings abt my husband
u just need to keep a distance with her....as in just hello hi and that too when u are meeting her at a party or something. i know it can be hard but ignoring is the best solution....or if she becomes too much of a nuisance then u and your husband can tell her off in 'strict' words.
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my husband has yelled at her for stalking him told her off in an email… but she was too stubborn…im not the kind of person to tell of sum1 but if she does try to ruin our marriage she’s going to have it 
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Bwahahahaha!