Weird Situation!

[LucyMay]

Re: Weird Situation!

@Nancy_Drew

ok let me explain the situation..if it gets confusing im sorry

So b4 our marriage, 3-4 colleagues/neighbours of my husband from pak had HUGE crushes on him, i really mean HUGE…in 2009 he went to south africa for his job… 2 girls still tried to stay in touch… 1 of them literally sent him an “i love u” msg at our wedding along with mubarakbaad kheyr my husband never responded to any of the girls’ msgs or mails… 1 of these girls is madly in love with my husband n few years back used to refer to him as “mia ji” , her FB id n email id still contain my husband’s name she has tried contacting him several times but he doesnt respond :jano: now she has added me on FB n after consulting my husband i accepted her request… now she is pretending that she is a friend of my nand… my husband is saying that i shud flatly tell her that i know abt her feelings 4 him…

u all must b thinking i must b nuts trying to befriend her but the thing which is making this situation weird for me is that my husband’s cousin likes this particular girl n they’ll be getting married soon (although she had refused to marry him earlier saying that her 1 n only love is my husband )

how m i supposed to react to this situation now? if she’s going to be a part of the family soon we’ll be seeing alot of each other :hinna:

Hah she added you on fb so she can see your hubby’s pics thru your albums

Keep your distance from her, be polite but not over-friendly. When this girl marries the cousin, how often will you see her? If it’s an occasional meeting at common weddings, family get-togethers, it shouldn’t be a problem. However, don’t encourage any more meetings. I’m sure she’ll settle down once she realizes that your hubby is simply not interested.