weird situation or stupidity of a friend

OYMWA · March 10, 2014, 1:58pm

Re: weird situation or stupidity of a friend

Well this all might sound full of made up stories or whatever… I accept that I have poor writing skills regarding such foolish stories. That’s why I named the topic so.
My friend is too immature. She thinks her hubby is extra friendly n trustworthy. They were living happily until had severe financial problem and as she refused to do job in the beginning as per her mom’s orders, her hubby thinks she n his in laws are non supporting. She couldn’t help him financially so the distance between 2 increased.
Then came the story of this 25 years old guy is who claims to be a pak army captain. She started talking to him n then he asked her to quit with her hubby come to him with his kids even or just leave him. She told her hubby about this captain but didn’t mention her own feelings for him.
Then she decided to quit all this n deleted him from Facebook n etc. Now when she told me all this rubbish I felt her hubby might have this as a reason to be away from her. She was of the opinion that I can directly ask him this but I stopped her from further such things. She is trying to give up on that guy who has stopped according to her.
Now I don’t know how to guide her. I am trying to help her to get back to her family…she was ignoring her kids n concentrating more on her outlooks when her hubby didn’t pay attention to her…what I think is that at this time she was missing presence of a man n love in her life which that captain fulfilled. How can she be strong without the presence of man’s attention n love? How can she fully come out of this guy? N should she clear her Hubby’s mind about that guy or leave it? As she thinks he was fine with that.
Her hubby says I only want u to do job n help me. She is waiting for sept when her daughter will start school.

You can do one of two things:

a. Tell her to leave her husband and kids and go marry the captain. If she stays and continues down this path, she will cause pain to a lot of people. Hopefully the captain makes more than her husband.

or

b. Just let the husband know and have him dump her sorry tashreef. Is this what she will be teaching his kids? To be disloyal and lie; not take responsibility and then play victim?

Once a cheater, always a cheater. For those of you getting all worked up on the implied ‘misogyny’ of my post, chill! I say the same thing about cheating husbands.