Hello
I have a close friend here in USA whose 31 married for 8…9 years with 2 kids. She was living happily until financial problems made her husband go away from her as she refused to do job in the begining.
Her husband thinks she didnt stand for him. She trusts her husband fully and says he is a friend more than a husband. The problem arised when she told me that to pass her lonely time she joined a group on facebook n met a 25 years captain from pakistan who fell in love with her and asked her to either leave her husband and come to her or leave him even as a friend. She also developed some feelings for him but soon realized she is doing wrong and ended the relationship. But she had already told her husband about him that a guy fell for her. He was fine with it n said it might be because of your US citizenship. After that she felt her hubby was same as before away from her but nothing new because of this news. But when i told her why you did all this n then told your hubby..she said yesterday when i uploaded my pic on facebook he asked her to remove from there n it might be because of that guy. Now the thing is he is still trapped financially feeling all alone n having very less convo n etc with the wife. She says i can ask him and cleatcthat guy thingy with my husband but before that i want to take others opinions what should she do? Cant start job before september because of her daughter who will start her school in sept.
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What type of messed up society do we live in?
Anyway she needs to try and regain his trust but before that she needs to comfort him and show him that she is there for him. If the affair with the guy is over than she really needs to block out that part of her life and try and move on with her husband.
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What is a 25 years captain? Dafuq
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What type of messed up society do we live in?
Anyway she needs to try and regain his trust but before that she needs to comfort him and show him that she is there for him. If the affair with the guy is over than she really needs to block out that part of her life and try and move on with her husband.
But how to do so previously she felt nothing is wrong but now when i asked her she is feeling bad. Now she is ready to talk to him n ask him directly if he has any doubts about this but i asked her to wait for sometime n be wise this time.
Another thing she has started taking care of herself a lot. Does makeup wears girlish clothes n says i do for myself but i am afraid it might give wrong indications to her husband.
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what the hell? blahblahblahblah she trusts her husband, cheated on him, etc etc etc, so should she start job? WHAT?
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Me no understand?
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A good plot ruined by poor writing.
None of us do bro 
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Only thing I understand is she is wearing makeup and is scared it might indicate to the husband she's cheating? I feel like I've been slapped silly by a rubber duck :(
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A guy fell for her through chatting and she told her husband about this after ending it with the captain dude and husband is alright with it? Husband is still away and she’s still lonely so now she wants to chitchat with the captain dude again but before chatting she wants to ask her husband right.?
:lkk:
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no she wants to clear guy thingy again with her husb. But before dat she wants others opinion whether she should do it or not. What i got.
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Perfect script for a new Star Plus drama serial... 5000 episodes guaranteed!
Haha..this is what i undetstood as well. Her husband is ok with it all??..doesn’t make sense or it is just made up..
So initially hubby showed no reaction but now that she had a makeover and uploaded a pic of her new self on fb, hubby is telling her to remove it. She thinks he is suspecting her off still being in contact with the 25 years Captain so she is wondering if she should clear it up a second time.
And the job bit was just useless info, meant to confuse us all. Weee
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May be job thing is the real issue and rest is to confuse us?
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Ah han. It’s life1. Anything is possible! 
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only if knew captain have this much free time on hand, I'd have made different career choice.
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May be job thing is the real issue and rest is to confuse us?
^Along with this, maybe he means that she began talking to the gentleman online out of boredom and her husband thinks that if she begins a job, she won't have that much time on her hands to chat online and the like?
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OP gayab. Waapis tashreef la ke confusion door karni munaasib nahi samjhi.
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