Re: Weight Issues
I think it works both ways…penalised for being ‘skinny’ and you are penalised for being ‘chubby/fat’
My daadi has always said that I won’t get married because I am ‘moti’ and that it is a shame because I am clever,come from a good family…blah…blah…blah…She actually said she was embarrassed of me once:bummer:…And in Pakistan it was where is that ‘lovely healthy girl gone’…there will always be not jealousy I would say but this ‘I-am-better-than-you’…some weird quick/sadistic pleasure that people get from putting another person down/belittling them…A superiority complex?oooo that youa re not so perfect…I dunnnooo but whatever it is I suppose I will lump it…people aree ntitled tos ay what they want at the end of the day but what people don’t realise is the impact of words…sometimes they are so profound and hurt…
Shay…your naturally thin…healthy I presume as you eat what you want etc…ignore them…
I wouldn’t be rude etc…be politet/nice to them etc and that will probably irk them even more:cb:
I’ve learnt the hard way that life is too short to worry about such things..beauty is in the eye of the beholder.we get worked up about the people that don’t matter and tend to neglect the one’s that do matter and make us who we are:)