Wedding shopping list

Re: Wedding shopping list

i have a few questions regarding wedding shopping.... is the girl who is getting married supposed to be the one deciding how much clothes and jewellery she wants to buy or is it her parents? i mean in case a girl wants more of it or less of it...is it her right or the parents? is the girl barred from spending her own money or if she is earning money she is "supposed" to spend money for her wedding goodies? or is it only the parents "duty" to spend.....
i am asking from a traditional, cultural and a "loag kya kahain gay" point of view.....just a general idea as to how much control and decision making the girl has over this (or does it vary from household to household?)