Wedding rasams..

Sara516 · December 28, 2006, 12:52am

So I think most of the mayyoun/mehndi rasams are crap. At least, they’re fun during the function but afterwards, like keeping oil in ur hair, not showering, or **not being allowed to leave the house **are just very unrealistic to follow in this day and age. And even though it IS possible for me, i dont go to work or school, i still think its crap.

Did any of you follow these rasams? what do you thinK?

smilestar · December 28, 2006, 1:27am

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your parents aren’t letting you go to school or work cause you’re getting married?

Sara516 · December 28, 2006, 1:29am

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Well school's over, and I havnt worked since september :p

manomano · December 28, 2006, 1:37am

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SAra even when you are sitting mayoun you do 'wuzu' and 'ghusul'- how can one pray without cleaning up well :)]

Sara516 · December 28, 2006, 1:55am

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Well they say u cant shower or wash ur hair.. so i dunno...

Ramsha · December 28, 2006, 2:04am

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^ ewww for how long?

hussain87 · December 28, 2006, 2:10am

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when u do rasams atleast follow them alll …

Sara516 · December 28, 2006, 2:16am

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ramsha, um from when u do the mayyoun ure not sposed to wash hair or shower or anything.

canpaki · December 28, 2006, 2:43am

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noope never herd of those rasam b4...

sadzzz · December 28, 2006, 2:54am

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when i was in mayoun (for about 3 days) i was in the same clothes during the day but changed at night.. and i showered everyday! with the oil.. thats totally upto u... and i went out pretty much everyday...

watever the case, these are all hindu rasame... so dont need to be soooo strict about them...

imrans_princess · December 28, 2006, 2:55am

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wow ur dettin mArried

canpaki · December 28, 2006, 3:06am

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haan IP…tumhare kub irade hain?

ps:waves:

smilestar · December 28, 2006, 3:21am

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actually, you don't need to do them at all :p

Saima-uk · December 28, 2006, 3:58am

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Oooh no 4get that, you dont have to become a scrubber and be drenched with grease to get that WOW factor on ur day, jus keep ur clothes plain n simple and light/no makeup will still give you that glow or roop on d wedding. This is what alot of girls that i know did.

Sara516 · December 28, 2006, 4:09am

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ive gotten that no-makeup thign down..it feels weird to hav make up on now :(

Zainab_Ahmed · December 28, 2006, 4:10am

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Wow..sara..im amazed that ure following all this! u should totally go wid what u want to do..i mean y not take shower if one needs to? **
**so how many days r left in ur shadi now? u must b really excited..haaN?
i wanna c ur engagement pics if u have em..plz!

Sara516 · December 28, 2006, 4:23am

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Lol zainab i’M NOT following htem !! But i know traditionally that’s how it is and it’s kinda weird tht ppl xpect u to follow them, esp the not leaving ur house, etc.

sadzzz · December 28, 2006, 4:28am

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^ are u expected not to leave ur house? i know girls are expected to in pak as well to just stay at home and stuff but like u see soooooo many girls in yellow outfits roaming Liberty haha.. i was one of them..

i agree with saima-uk as well, the whole no-makeup thing on the mendhi day is cool… u look really good :k:

Saima-uk · December 28, 2006, 4:39am

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Lol it'l proberbly feel normal again to wear make up after the wedding seen as tho youl have had extra on, on the wedding. I can go without wearing it but i feel realy ****y when i see someone else whos done up.

coolmunda · December 28, 2006, 11:49am

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Wash it out and get on with ur daily life (prayers etc) ...forget the rasam crap.