how do u approach your wife for sex? any tips from those guys already married? if its a love marriage and she’s a gf then thats simple but imagine marrying someone from your village, not really knowing her properly, how do u break the ice?
imagine her running out of the room shouting to your mum “ammi amii bachao yeh mere saath ghalat kaam karna chaah rahey hein” 
I would imagine having sex would be one way to break the ice.
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I would imagine having sex would be one way to break the ice.
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I asked how to break the ice not the hymen.
Ask her if she has seen a grown man Naked. 
Once a man had this problem, his bride was quite young and naive.
He told her that we are going to do something her mom and dad used to do regularly at night.
She did’t understood and when husband explained it further the girl went hysterical and said
**nahi ! yeh nahi hosakta aap merey mummy pappa per ilzam laga rahey hain wo aisa kabhi nahi kar saktey **
The guy went 
Lol, iv'e heard funny stories too..
well asti, why dont they both watch a nice movie together :)
emmm
what about ‘orignal sin’ 
I remember reading on a similar topic about 2 years ago on a muslim youth forum, where someone gave the example of one unfortunate guy.
The guy had thought long and hard about the event, that he couldn't do "it" to a total stranger, and that the best, most wholesome activity they could do was discuss Islam and learn about it together. So he planned and planned carefully how things should go.
Of course, the best laid plans of mice and men always go astray. The guy's wife, on their wedding night, after abstaining from sex her whole life was not going to let him off so easily. As he began his carefully orchestrated talk on Islam, she just pushed him onto the bed and had her way with him. He basically got raped by his wife, something that deeply affected his pride and made their marriage uncomfortable.
theyll get there..
Interesting maddy, islam is always the best way to go.
The prophet (saw) said to approach your wives lovingly in a kind manner. (correct me please, i dono the exact words).
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The prophet (saw) said to approach your wives lovingly in a kind manner. (correct me please, i dono the exact words).
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I don't think this was instructed ONLY for the wedding night. You should be kind and loving even when she is giving jhaaroo or washing your undies.
Maddy, why did the brides jumping her groom's bones made the marriage uncomfortable?. If anything, it should have made it more 'enjoyable' for the guy.
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Interesting maddy,, islam is always the best way to go.
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Like I said, I read that on a British muslim youth forum (in the males only section, so guys spoke their mind) .
Most of them, being western-raised, said that they could not imagine having sex with a total stranger and that they would probably not attempt to do it on the wedding night, waiting instead until they felt an actual emotional connection.
The whole lot of them being pretty religious, they concluded that they would prefer to spend the wedding night talking, getting to know their new other half, discussing Islam, so that they could develop an appreciation of each other's commitment to Islam, and praying together, so that God may bless their marriage from the very start.
The case that I described before was brought up during the discussion as a reminder by someone that despite what the guy may be planning, the girl could have something else in mind and only a fool would rely on the girl being shy, timid, and naive.
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I don't think this was instructed ONLY for the wedding night. You should be kind and loving even when she is giving jhaaroo or washing your undies.
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I believe that hadith was a reference to foreplay, the arabic word translated as "approach" meaning "go to her for a shag" (though I may be wrong, I've only ever seen this hadith used as evidence that foreplay is sunnah) .
Of course, "approach" sounds more elegant.
I promise I’ll let you know you when you become 18. For right now, focus on your studies.
He’s legally old enough for it in the UK where he lives … you can tell him now 
A 14 years old KID? 
Ashti Oh boy, We are gonna have to have a one-on-one talk son :nono:
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I remember reading on a similar topic about 2 years ago on a muslim youth forum, where someone gave the example of one unfortunate guy.
The guy had thought long and hard about the event, that he couldn't do "it" to a total stranger, and that the best, most wholesome activity they could do was discuss Islam and learn about it together. So he planned and planned carefully how things should go.
Of course, the best laid plans of mice and men always go astray. The guy's wife, on their wedding night, after abstaining from sex her whole life was not going to let him off so easily. As he began his carefully orchestrated talk on Islam, she just pushed him onto the bed and had her way with him. He basically got raped by his wife, something that deeply affected his pride and made their marriage uncomfortable.
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Im sorry but this was ahem very funny.She waited her whole life and she couldnt wait a bit longer? And he uh didnt do anything about it? She just had her way with him.Ahem ok.
Approach her "MAULA BAKSH" style. Make sure you wear a DHOTI and apply a lot TAIL (oil) to you hair. Oh and don't forget to yell NIIIIIIIIIIIII KURIYEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE as soon as you enter.
I've heard desi chics dig that style
Shamsheer ul Haq
^^ yep u got it
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Approach her "MAULA BAKSH" style. Make sure you wear a DHOTI and apply a lot TAIL (oil) to you hair. Oh and don't forget to yell NIIIIIIIIIIIII KURIYEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE as soon as you enter.
I've heard desi chics dig that style
Shamsheer ul Haq
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:rotfl"
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Approach her "MAULA BAKSH" style. Make sure you wear a DHOTI and apply a lot TAIL (oil) **to you hair*. Oh and don't forget to yell NIIIIIIIIIIIII KURIYEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE as soon as you enter.
I've heard desi chics dig that style
Shamsheer ul Haq
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be sure that the application of 'tail' is on the right place ;)