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We should have that gender sign below or nicks as it used to b before...
linux there have been some threads before regarding this topic,dunno how to get the link here. hope someone will help you :)
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Dude just enjoy ur wedding food and eat a lot and you’ll have a peaceful first night sleep … Problem solved 
lolzzz:) I didn't mean that, I know how to do it. My question to the audience is that should it be done?? or does the gals feel better not doing it the first night?? or is it necessary to do it the first night
Islam says it is couple's choice... they can do it on 1st night, 2nd night or whichever night they like...
**Solved:aq: Start kahu **
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What i do not understand is how can you guys think he is a she when he has such a manly username. Linux is the name of an open source operating system. A girl must be really into IT to keep that as her username or very tom boyish.
:o oops! sorry Linux! I guess the reason I assumed your gender as female is that guys arent usually so caring and concerned about this topic! And I didnt really see the nick as either gender - its the name of an operating system yeah? I myself am a comp sci graduate, previously a computer nerd.
I guess my advice still stands...you dont HAVE to on the first night but if all goes well, if you are as concerned and caring as you seem to be then maybe things will happen. No big deal if you decide that its better to wait. Take it slow and ask your bride as things go along whether she'd like to continue.
Best of luck! And please post some wedding pics!
I am actually very formal kind of person and secondly I am very week in “gals” course rather if there would have been a test i probably would have ended last lolzzzz 
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Its not about being comfortable or not I am interested in comments from married people and ladies specially.
And I must thank you all for help and you contribution
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I also heard someone say bride and groom should offer nawafil and must go to bed??
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the fact that ur even concerned, should just indicate... just relax. go with the flow on that nite
the fact that ur even concerned, should just indicate... just relax. go with the flow on that nite
lolzzzz
seriously I always hated getting married....I still don't know wat in the world am i doing... i wish if just someone can give me option to run away.... funny thought.... i always told people not to get married and not atleast in pakistan it will make their lives hell and now i am stuck there...*, *, ****....
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u sound like my cousin :aq:
lolzzzzzz:)
I cann't be ur cousin
I am unique
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linux ur so funny....u should ask ur partner if she feels comfortable on first nite...go for it...:P
Tum sub ne apna apna maza le lia, apni apni suhagraat mana li ab ye new log meidaan main aah rahey hain tou discourage na karo.
Linux... I don't know how to tell you this buddy but yes it should be done... don't worry about what gal feels, just do it. It must be done, the seed needs to be planted in time.
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oh sheesh man....see this is EXACTLY why I didnt think a guy would post such a caring and concerned question.
LINUX man...YOU are on the right track, you will be a spectacular and much loved husband if you continue to follow your heart. If you follow advice such as JL gives, you will be looked upon by your wife as a baboon - beating your chest and growling to the heavens to proclaim your "superiority". (while we laugh behind your back and cry tears of sympathy for your wife)
JL...please send your wife my sincerest sympathies.
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Linux, if you listen to anybody else you will be *wussified *for the rest of your life. You want to make your first impression the last impression and in doing so, the right impression.
A man doesn't ask his land when it should be watered or if it is the right time of the year - a man just does it. Plow it well my friend, plow it well before you seed.
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O.M.G.
Your POOR wife. what a sad and sorry testament to the male species you are JL. I sincerely hope you're kidding here.
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lol u really wanna get banned dude? 
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He doesn't need to be a pussy *to get *some. Linux, ask your friends for advice, watch what they say.
My analogy might be too harsh for the those who are already sissified, are hardcore feminist communists or just love playing the victim but deep down inside, that's how all men feel... including your husband mamaof aunty- the difference is he lacks the courage and himat to stop being your feline.