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I didnt realize that primates have been able to somewhat master a keyboard. It should however, be closely monitored by your babysitter.
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Weren't you the first demo product of such feat? You are an **inspirational **Macaque.
tum ne rona shuru kar dia hai main bass karta hoon... dum se paoon hata leta hoon apna.
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As far as I know the desi tradition is like this, the next day a girl is asked by her friends if he did it on the first night. Even some elderly women might be assigned the duty by other elders of the family to ask the girl if it happened. If the news gets out that he did not do it on the first night , he is labeled impotent.
So much disinformation and misinformation is common in desi community about sex , marriage , virginity that all that misinformation and disinformation is taken as absolute truth.
Sex therapist say that in some cases the man might be so stressed on the first night that he might not even be able to do it specially if the boy and girl are strangers to each other and it is their first night together in a room. It might take some time for the boy/man to get to the point where he can do it.
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JL is obviously a paindu!!!
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lol
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Linux, if you don't do it the first night, you forever will be known as the 2nd nighter, 3rd nighter (doosri raat wala, teesri raat wala). It doesn't look good on your resume, my friend.
You know you will be asked on your valima if you did it so spare yourself some dignity and do the *right *thing.
A farmer loves nothing more than an early harvest.
Words of wisdom, my me onto you.
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lol dude you are so DESI. thats why i never wanna get married
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ok well it seems like linux's question has been answered by two different parties holding two different opinions and now its just heading into "arguing for the sake of arguing" territory so i'm going to lock it.
First night
Is it a must to have a sexual intercourse on the first night of marriage. what if the girl has its monthly period. What they should do. Only doctor or married people give advice.
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had this thread a time ago, look
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That thread does not answer my question.
It is not a must to do anything on the first night.... the most important aspect is to be comfortable with each other and if it happens it happens and if not no harm done.
There is a preconception that it must take place on the first night, however that is not always the case.
With regards to if the girl has her period, you can go to the doctor and get pills to delay the process and that should solve that problem. If you are expecting your period it may be wise to get the pills (medication) regardless as it much easier not to have your period during your wedding days to save cramps etc.
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Intercourse should not be done if the woman is mensturating be it her 1st night or any other nights to follow. It is not necessary to have it on the first night of marriage, also. It is not just a Plug A into Socket B kind of a thing. Take your time with this as this memory is going to last for ages. Don't make your wife remember you as an inconsiderate man who was only interested in one thing, even after 30 years of marriage. Be patient and loving whenever you do it.
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it is wise to get the medication than to wait until the period finished.
send her back ! what a 
question asked for 100000000001st time !
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I personally wouldn't suggest her going on the pill or any other medication for that matter, unless need be. The medication can distrupt her natural cycle, and sometimes it can take months for your routinly cycle to adjust to how it was.
In regards to sexual intercourse, you have your whole life to do the deed, why narrow it down to the one day. Beside's both of you will be extremely tired and exhausted after the wedding events, so I think it's nice to just enjoy each other's company and take things slow.
There's always the honeymoon.
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so wait !
It will be difficult for them to wait for long time.
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OMG is sex all you're getting married for??
prototype, that would be the simplest solution. 
This one is indeed a question.
Hats off, aliyahali! You have asked the real question.
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what are some of the tips of first night.
When the husband come in the room what he should do first.? He should give gift as face sighting. or he should talk first and then after a while he should give gift? How much time they should talk. What time they should sleep. what time they should walk up next morning. What they should dressed while sleeping. etc what are the steps 1,2,3 ...