Re: ur feelings towards suhaag raat
I think it's weird when couples who are complete strangers are expected to (and do) have sex the first night. All your life you've been sheltered from such things and suddenly you're expected to put out? I've even seen girls having arranged marriages get really stressed because their period came at the wrong time, and consider taking hormone pills to screw with the cycle, just so that they won't disappoint the random stranger they are spending their lives with.
I think that's weird. But that's my personal opinion, do what you want, as long as choice is involved and there's no external pressure.
Some girls just wanna do it. They get horny too, and if you can't do it wiht your husband, on the first night, without people thinking you're somehow bad or a whore for actually wanting to.....then that's the sad state of pakis.
i mean its all comfort level, of course its not bad if u dont want to, but why do ppl look down on the girls who do?