Re: Wedding in Moharram
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But should be avoided, espicially in the first 10 days.
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Why should it be avoided?
Whats in first 10 days?
Why are those 10 days BAD for YOU as they were for those who are remembered?
How is your life connected with those 10 days? And why are you only concerned about those 10 days and rest of the days in the year all types of kanjar-khana is jaiz?
If you are so sad in those 10 days, why not show true love and stay sad for the whole year? What has happened has happened, so now only thing we CAN do is stay sad... why the hypocrisy of 10 days of sad matams and then life as normal? Don't *remember *them rest of the year other than those 10 days?
It is PURE jahalat to say that any year, month of year or day of the month is bad or cursed for people... there is no proof in Quran and Sunnah to suggest that. Some people have deliberately created ways to stop day to day work and feast on people's innocence/ignorance... lazy, selfish and halwa puri moulvies.
Yes, pay respect but don't make it part of your religion and preach that humanity stop what they are suppose to do because something happened on that day in history. If that is the case, then there are far more important and sad things that happened before karbala that should be remembered and then you won't have days or months left to do anything.