Re: wedding excitement
Beach weddings are not elegant per definition. Making an event elgant (or not) is al upto the hosts. Besides, the definition of elegant is not the same for everyone.
The fact that there aren’t many beach weddings in the desi community is because we are not familiar with that in our culture.
And to be honest I don’t see any sadness in that.
What will be more special in a beach wedding?
I have been to quite some white marriages, and hey, they all looked to same too. What would you call that? recycled hollywood type stuff?
You don’t need to be unique in everything. As long as you are enjoying yourself and as long as the guests are having a good time too.