wedding excitement

ummm this probably may seem a funny question but i think i should ask it here…

My wedding is planned in next 10-11 months, date hasn’t been finalized yet. My fiancee is super duper excited BUT only about wedding functions. These days whenever we talk (on phone/chat), she is all about bridal dresses, jewellery’s designs, wedding themes, photographer for wedding, decoration of “car for baraat”. She has even started contacting photographers and even management companies for info even when date has still to be finalized (and it would take 3-4 months easily) :s . Her family is already done with bridal dresses and jewelery orders (they are toooooo fast).

Sometimes she starts panicking that what if something goes wrong. If she discusses some idea with me and i say i dont think its a good idea then its all about me ruining the charm. :frowning: . Every day i get fb messages from her with links of different wedding decoration ideas . " Hey check this… awwww this is so cute .. I think we should get this item".

I guess she has gone crazy about the “Wedding day” .. not because of US, but because of jewelery, dresses, wedding themes etc. etc.

I want to ask the girls here.. is that how every girl is excited about her big day" ??? Is that how every girl goes crazy about her wedding?

Additional note: She gets upset at very little little things, e.g. if i disagree with her any idea then she would start saying you dont care about me and my happiness blah blah, and the next moment she would send me a link for “best wedding theme” . :S

Re: wedding excitement

yes…its ‘normal’ for brides…

and the crazyness will stay…it will just change its from from being about wedding to something else…get used to it :chai:

Re: wedding excitement

Nice touch to lead us to the opinion you want to hear ;)

But yeah severe case of bridezilla detected.

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If she's the kind of girl who's been dreaming about her wedding day since she was a little girl, then yeah, it's probly normal.

Heck even I know what I wanna wear on my wedding day and I'm not even engaged or anythnig yet.

Don't fret.

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Have you already settled the nikah condition issue? Have you agreed to include that condition in your nikahnama?

And her wedding excitement is quite normal. Don't worry this time :D

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It not the "touch" ... Its the basic reason why it bugs me.. Otherwise i don't have issue with her excitement :)

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No way, Maddyyyy? I thought you were different! Son, I am disappoint.

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I sorry sir, it's the wedding forums, they're so pretty and sparkly

:(

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Don’t worry I dont have 10 gazillion pounds to spend on my dress though :teary2:

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dream merchant :rotfl:

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Aww…now I get why you were so keen to find out the most valuable guppies :wink:

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Heh heh heh

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LOL, you got a good memory.. yeah it's resolved peacefully. No conditions ;)

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???

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That's even more crazy :o

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Pffttt what do you know.

Don't hate cos I'm gonna be a bootiful bride and I'm gonna have HXYZ fraak with Jimmy Choos shoes and..and...and

explodes

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and you can say… they made it specially for you…not in any catalogue/magazine/show…so you become legit :hehe:

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Yes, mostly they are. Once its over, they come back to their normal selves.

So what is the theme, need help with invitation cards, etc :wink:

Re: wedding excitement

kidhar phas gaye ho yar - though road ahead

Re: wedding excitement

Bhai sab ka aik din phansna barhaq hai....