Hey!
I’m planning my wedding and I want a different kind of entrance. I’m thinking of having my friends walk in with their hubbys, like they do at church weddings? what do you think? or do you have any other idea?
I live in the EU! I really want my friends & cousins to be a part of the wedding, not just as in attending it, I want them to be part of the main attraction, i.e. me & my entrance 
The wedding guest will be 50% moms family, 30% dad’s family & 20% my friends and their families.
Mow my moms family are quite conservative, almost to the point of being paindus, at their wedding they sit split up in male and female sections, they do the whole jaheez showing thing, no dancing, no dj, but they are all very sweet and so on!
My dad’s family are are quite modern! They go all out, dj’s, dancing, everyone sitting together, they normally have 1 table for each family attending, so everyone sits together. They don’t believe in jaheez, and are quite open minded.
My friends familys are a huge mix, but overall they are modern, and if someone does something “new” they get so excited!
The reason I want a entrance like that is because ..
- My entire wedding is kind of different, it SO ME! hence the details have to be different as well.
- I often see that friends are forgotten and are not given the attention they deserve, I have some of the greatest friends ever! I’m 24 & I’ve known these people for 7-18 years, they have all gone above and beyond for me, whenever i needed them, traveled across the country for me, if I need them at 0300 in the morning, They’re there for me, In good times and also when things did not go very well …
There was this wedding once, we’re the bride did not even glace at her friends, it was all about her cousins, the same cousins that never helped her with anything, the same people that talk crap about her behind her back & put her down to her face!
at another wedding the friends were getting wayyyyy to much say and it did not end well …
I want to invite every friend & cousin that has been there for me, and whom id like to be there for me again, I want them to “lead the way” … I haven’t seen it done at a desi wedding so I’m hoping people get it … also the unmarried once will walk with their brother, OR walk behind me & my parents, because in my moms family everyone walks behind the dulhan …? what do you think?
Can you imagine, teri ore playing and when they start to sing the first couple walks in, then the second and so on, and when that last couple walks in, there is dead silence and BOOM the brides walks in … tadaaaaa also I want my couples to stand like they do at a church, the guys lines on one side the girls on the other … and then! picture timee 
